1 00:00:00,831 --> 00:00:05,119 Question: How to reach the youth culture? 2 00:00:05,119 --> 00:00:06,923 Steve: The student minister asked, 3 00:00:06,923 --> 00:00:10,586 how do we reach college students 4 00:00:10,586 --> 00:00:14,480 and these two extremes? 5 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:16,217 And I'm sure the secret is 6 00:00:16,217 --> 00:00:19,527 there is no secret. 7 00:00:19,527 --> 00:00:23,709 It's the reality of the power of the Gospel 8 00:00:23,709 --> 00:00:25,242 and the reality and the power 9 00:00:25,242 --> 00:00:26,972 of the Person and work of Christ 10 00:00:26,972 --> 00:00:31,051 unleashed by His Spirit from the Scripture 11 00:00:31,051 --> 00:00:32,803 upon the lives of students. 12 00:00:32,803 --> 00:00:34,071 And the fact is, 13 00:00:34,071 --> 00:00:36,993 so many of these students are unconverted. 14 00:00:36,993 --> 00:00:41,536 And their parents are wanting them to come 15 00:00:41,536 --> 00:00:43,584 and they're not saved, 16 00:00:43,584 --> 00:00:45,022 so they don't have a new mind, 17 00:00:45,022 --> 00:00:46,462 they don't have a new heart. 18 00:00:46,462 --> 00:00:47,766 They have a heart of stone 19 00:00:47,766 --> 00:00:49,766 that's resistant to the things of God. 20 00:00:49,766 --> 00:00:54,354 Their eyes are blind. Their ears are deaf. 21 00:00:54,354 --> 00:00:57,085 So most churches just resort to 22 00:00:57,085 --> 00:01:00,621 a bowling alley or a concert or whatever 23 00:01:00,621 --> 00:01:02,767 just to entertain them. 24 00:01:02,767 --> 00:01:07,863 And that's a very challenging position to be in, Mackie, 25 00:01:07,863 --> 00:01:12,294 because you get a mom and a dad saved 26 00:01:12,294 --> 00:01:13,564 and they come to church, 27 00:01:13,564 --> 00:01:16,243 but all their kids are not necessarily 28 00:01:16,243 --> 00:01:20,102 yet regenerate. 29 00:01:20,102 --> 00:01:23,186 And how you hold their attention, 30 00:01:23,186 --> 00:01:26,196 I think you just have to, 31 00:01:26,196 --> 00:01:28,401 by the grace of God, 32 00:01:28,401 --> 00:01:30,267 every time you are with them 33 00:01:30,267 --> 00:01:31,824 and you minister to them, 34 00:01:31,824 --> 00:01:33,787 again, I don't think there's any secret. 35 00:01:33,787 --> 00:01:37,480 I think you just have to have such a reality 36 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:39,494 of the living Christ in your own life 37 00:01:39,494 --> 00:01:42,338 and in your teaching and in your preaching 38 00:01:42,338 --> 00:01:45,780 and in your love and your outreach to them, 39 00:01:45,780 --> 00:01:49,459 and pray that God in His sovereignty 40 00:01:49,459 --> 00:01:51,498 will lay hold of them 41 00:01:51,498 --> 00:01:54,924 and arrest their attention. 42 00:01:54,924 --> 00:01:59,547 But I just refuse to turn this into 43 00:01:59,547 --> 00:02:03,368 a glorified club. 44 00:02:03,368 --> 00:02:08,113 And I totally understand 45 00:02:08,113 --> 00:02:12,190 a neo-Puritanical - I'm interested in that, 46 00:02:12,190 --> 00:02:14,238 but they're not interested in that. 47 00:02:14,238 --> 00:02:16,156 And I understand that. I wasn't either 48 00:02:16,156 --> 00:02:18,842 when I was that age. 49 00:02:18,842 --> 00:02:22,533 But I remember when I was in high school, 50 00:02:22,533 --> 00:02:24,740 I grew up in a liberal Methodist church. 51 00:02:24,740 --> 00:02:27,682 I never even heard a Bible message. 52 00:02:27,682 --> 00:02:29,497 My parents led me to Christ 53 00:02:29,497 --> 00:02:32,885 and I had enough there that I was saved, 54 00:02:32,885 --> 00:02:34,916 but I remember in high school 55 00:02:34,916 --> 00:02:37,978 going to certain ministries 56 00:02:37,978 --> 00:02:39,845 outside of my church, 57 00:02:39,845 --> 00:02:42,075 that when I saw and heard 58 00:02:42,075 --> 00:02:44,724 and felt the reality of what was going on 59 00:02:44,724 --> 00:02:46,827 in those circles, 60 00:02:46,827 --> 00:02:51,720 my heart was just drawn to that. 61 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,819 I remember just meeting in living rooms like this 62 00:02:54,819 --> 00:02:57,766 and little parachurch ministry things. 63 00:02:57,766 --> 00:03:00,388 And it was so simple. 64 00:03:00,388 --> 00:03:02,617 Someone stood up and led us in singing, 65 00:03:02,617 --> 00:03:04,916 and there was a Bible message. 66 00:03:04,916 --> 00:03:08,365 And there were snacks afterwards in the kitchen. 67 00:03:08,365 --> 00:03:10,747 It was simple, but it was authentic. 68 00:03:10,747 --> 00:03:14,374 It was real. 69 00:03:14,374 --> 00:03:18,234 I think that somewhere in that 70 00:03:18,234 --> 00:03:23,790 is the reality of first century Christianity. 71 00:03:23,790 --> 00:03:27,005 And it may not succeed. 72 00:03:27,005 --> 00:03:29,754 And I'll have to accept that. 73 00:03:29,754 --> 00:03:33,866 I can't adjust the course for this ship 74 00:03:33,866 --> 00:03:37,310 if people are not hopping on board, 75 00:03:37,310 --> 00:03:39,387 but I don't have a martyr's complex. 76 00:03:39,387 --> 00:03:40,937 I'm not trying to shrink this. 77 00:03:40,937 --> 00:03:42,746 I'm wanting to enlarge this. 78 00:03:42,746 --> 00:03:45,617 I have a positive approach, 79 00:03:45,617 --> 00:03:50,175 but it's just who we are and what we are 80 00:03:50,175 --> 00:03:53,278 and it's like there is no other play to call. 81 00:03:53,278 --> 00:03:56,063 I mean, either God's going to get them on board, 82 00:03:56,063 --> 00:03:58,162 or they're just not going to be on board, 83 00:03:58,162 --> 00:04:00,403 but we're not going to become a different ship 84 00:04:00,403 --> 00:04:02,732 and cater to this. 85 00:04:02,732 --> 00:04:05,019 I would try to get the parents involved. 86 00:04:05,019 --> 00:04:06,720 And I'm coming right back to you - 87 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:08,690 I'd try to get the parents involved 88 00:04:08,690 --> 00:04:11,232 and have their emotional support - 89 00:04:11,232 --> 00:04:13,371 not just be dropping them here, 90 00:04:13,371 --> 00:04:16,619 but to reinforce what we're doing 91 00:04:16,619 --> 00:04:18,891 as best we can. 92 00:04:18,891 --> 00:04:20,977 But really, what works in big church 93 00:04:20,977 --> 00:04:24,494 is what works in little church 94 00:04:24,494 --> 00:04:27,865 just with some adapting. 95 00:04:27,865 --> 00:04:29,279 But that's a tough question. 96 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:31,818 Everybody I think around the country 97 00:04:31,818 --> 00:04:33,509 is wrestling with that. 98 00:04:33,509 --> 00:04:35,711 And yeah, there is this kind of new movement 99 00:04:35,711 --> 00:04:36,976 within reformed circles - 100 00:04:36,976 --> 00:04:38,863 the young, restless, and reformed 101 00:04:38,863 --> 00:04:43,538 and wanting to be salty and edgy and crass. 102 00:04:43,538 --> 00:04:47,375 I'm not going down that path. 103 00:04:47,375 --> 00:04:49,556 I think there is a standard of holiness 104 00:04:49,556 --> 00:04:51,496 and purity and integrity 105 00:04:51,496 --> 00:04:54,618 that we've got to maintain. 106 00:04:54,618 --> 00:05:00,282 And I'm not trying to be 107 00:05:00,282 --> 00:05:05,027 a shock jock with young people 108 00:05:05,027 --> 00:05:06,712 where I've got to shock them 109 00:05:06,712 --> 00:05:10,248 by my edginess to get them interested. 110 00:05:10,248 --> 00:05:12,607 The power is in the Gospel. 111 00:05:12,607 --> 00:05:15,799 It's in the message, not in the messenger.