Title: The Emotional Life of Jesus: An Overview (Part 2) Meta: The Bible teaches that as a man Jesus possessed the essential elements of human nature. Jesus was not constricted in His emotions, or corrupted and controlled by His emotions. He was perfectly balanced in His emotions. Tags: emotions,men,attitude,christian,Jesus,Life 1 00:00:03,284 --> 00:00:05,383 Brothers, I hope no one will be offended 2 00:00:05,383 --> 00:00:10,016 by the fact that I'm going to wear my hat. 3 00:00:10,016 --> 00:00:11,959 I don't have hair like Michael - 4 00:00:11,959 --> 00:00:13,029 close cropped - 5 00:00:13,029 --> 00:00:14,392 and I don't have much of it. 6 00:00:14,392 --> 00:00:16,407 And I think it would be more distracting 7 00:00:16,407 --> 00:00:18,507 to see my wispy hair blowing 8 00:00:18,507 --> 00:00:20,284 than it would for me to wear my hat. 9 00:00:20,284 --> 00:00:26,472 So, I trust nobody's offended by that. 10 00:00:26,472 --> 00:00:28,718 Brothers, something I wanted to do last night 11 00:00:28,718 --> 00:00:29,981 but for the sake of time, 12 00:00:29,981 --> 00:00:31,248 chose not to do, 13 00:00:31,248 --> 00:00:32,940 but I'll take a few minutes now, 14 00:00:32,940 --> 00:00:35,457 is just to share my own personal testimony 15 00:00:35,457 --> 00:00:36,786 of God's grace. 16 00:00:36,786 --> 00:00:38,777 I've enjoyed getting to know some of you 17 00:00:38,777 --> 00:00:40,750 that I haven't known before. 18 00:00:40,750 --> 00:00:42,834 But still, I'm a stranger to many of you. 19 00:00:42,834 --> 00:00:45,984 And it's always good to hear from someone 20 00:00:45,984 --> 00:00:47,967 you know a little bit something about. 21 00:00:47,967 --> 00:00:51,170 So let me briefly just tell you my story. 22 00:00:51,170 --> 00:00:54,009 I was raised in northern New Jersey 23 00:00:54,009 --> 00:00:57,427 in a family that was nominally Roman Catholic. 24 00:00:57,427 --> 00:00:59,810 My father was raised Italian Catholic, 25 00:00:59,810 --> 00:01:01,479 and for him, it was enough 26 00:01:01,479 --> 00:01:03,500 that we made our first holy communion 27 00:01:03,500 --> 00:01:05,201 at about age 6, 28 00:01:05,201 --> 00:01:07,533 and after that, we were on our own 29 00:01:07,533 --> 00:01:09,352 to go to church. 30 00:01:09,352 --> 00:01:10,695 By my mid-teen years, 31 00:01:10,695 --> 00:01:12,271 I found myself asking some 32 00:01:12,271 --> 00:01:14,200 of the basic questions about life: 33 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:15,445 Why am I here? 34 00:01:15,445 --> 00:01:16,847 Where am I going? 35 00:01:16,847 --> 00:01:18,304 What's going to happen to me 36 00:01:18,304 --> 00:01:19,768 when I die? 37 00:01:19,768 --> 00:01:21,674 And so I began going on my own 38 00:01:21,674 --> 00:01:23,043 to the Roman Catholic church 39 00:01:23,043 --> 00:01:24,670 about a mile away across 40 00:01:24,670 --> 00:01:26,635 our little mile square town. 41 00:01:26,635 --> 00:01:29,222 Walking to church in my mid-teens. 42 00:01:29,222 --> 00:01:31,578 Asking those questions. 43 00:01:31,578 --> 00:01:34,491 But I remember returning week after week 44 00:01:34,491 --> 00:01:37,480 as empty-headed as I went. 45 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:39,761 The Catholic church was a lot of ceremony. 46 00:01:39,761 --> 00:01:41,271 It was sit, stand, kneel. 47 00:01:41,271 --> 00:01:43,256 Sit, stand, kneel. 48 00:01:43,256 --> 00:01:46,191 Some monotone, dull prayers. 49 00:01:46,191 --> 00:01:48,494 Some reading of Scripture which seemed to be 50 00:01:48,494 --> 00:01:50,616 a far away world. 51 00:01:50,616 --> 00:01:51,867 And rather ironically, 52 00:01:51,867 --> 00:01:54,140 the Mass would end by the priest saying, 53 00:01:54,140 --> 00:01:56,343 "The Mass has ended. Go in peace." 54 00:01:56,343 --> 00:01:58,154 And the congregational response was, 55 00:01:58,154 --> 00:01:59,412 "Thanks be to God." 56 00:01:59,412 --> 00:02:01,002 And the way they all peeled out, 57 00:02:01,002 --> 00:02:03,097 took off for the parking lot, and took off, 58 00:02:03,097 --> 00:02:04,355 I interpreted that to be, 59 00:02:04,355 --> 00:02:06,919 the Mass has ended, go in peace, thank God it's over. 60 00:02:06,919 --> 00:02:09,284 I've done my 45 minutes of religion for the week 61 00:02:09,284 --> 00:02:10,093 and I'm done. 62 00:02:10,093 --> 00:02:11,955 And that's how people were viewing it. 63 00:02:11,955 --> 00:02:13,538 And that's how I was viewing it. 64 00:02:13,538 --> 00:02:14,806 No answers. 65 00:02:14,806 --> 00:02:17,430 But in the kind providence of God, 66 00:02:17,430 --> 00:02:18,923 in those mid-teen years, 67 00:02:18,923 --> 00:02:20,988 I met a couple of young men 68 00:02:20,988 --> 00:02:23,818 at a pond where my friend and I 69 00:02:23,818 --> 00:02:26,143 used to ice skate and play ice hockey. 70 00:02:26,143 --> 00:02:28,420 And these guys were about my age 71 00:02:28,420 --> 00:02:31,173 and I love to fish, 72 00:02:31,173 --> 00:02:33,103 and these guys were not only fisherman, 73 00:02:33,103 --> 00:02:35,549 they were fisherman, hunters, and trappers 74 00:02:35,549 --> 00:02:36,850 in suburban north Jersey. 75 00:02:36,850 --> 00:02:38,763 It was like these guys should have been 76 00:02:38,763 --> 00:02:40,274 born in another century. 77 00:02:40,274 --> 00:02:41,941 But they became my friends 78 00:02:41,941 --> 00:02:43,576 and we began fishing together. 79 00:02:43,576 --> 00:02:45,056 And through them, I was exposed 80 00:02:45,056 --> 00:02:47,629 to a Baptist youth group. 81 00:02:47,629 --> 00:02:49,357 And even though I'm sure it was 82 00:02:49,357 --> 00:02:51,117 a bunch of immature kids, 83 00:02:51,117 --> 00:02:53,561 many of them not even converted, 84 00:02:53,561 --> 00:02:55,761 but there was something real and genuine 85 00:02:55,761 --> 00:02:59,284 about their faith that I had never seen before. 86 00:02:59,284 --> 00:03:01,001 When they prayed a simple prayer 87 00:03:01,001 --> 00:03:01,853 over a meal, 88 00:03:01,853 --> 00:03:04,252 it was as though God were a real person 89 00:03:04,252 --> 00:03:05,926 and that they knew Him. 90 00:03:05,926 --> 00:03:08,121 And that was different from what I had known 91 00:03:08,121 --> 00:03:09,567 in the Roman Catholic church. 92 00:03:09,567 --> 00:03:11,756 And I was intrigued by their lives. 93 00:03:11,756 --> 00:03:15,302 They had something that I didn't have 94 00:03:15,302 --> 00:03:16,398 and I wanted. 95 00:03:16,398 --> 00:03:18,129 Now they were friendly toward me, 96 00:03:18,129 --> 00:03:19,462 but somehow I had the sense 97 00:03:19,462 --> 00:03:21,254 that I'm on the outside looking in 98 00:03:21,254 --> 00:03:24,248 to something that I'm not a part of. 99 00:03:24,248 --> 00:03:27,058 And I knew it was all about Jesus. 100 00:03:27,058 --> 00:03:29,765 But God didn't put it together for me right away. 101 00:03:29,765 --> 00:03:33,272 I went off to college at a young age of 16. 102 00:03:33,272 --> 00:03:36,377 My freshman year went OK. 103 00:03:36,377 --> 00:03:38,139 I was majoring in psychology, 104 00:03:38,139 --> 00:03:39,328 simply because to me, 105 00:03:39,328 --> 00:03:41,584 people were more interesting than things. 106 00:03:41,584 --> 00:03:43,397 And so, let me major in psychology. 107 00:03:43,397 --> 00:03:46,093 I had no direction for my life. 108 00:03:46,093 --> 00:03:47,146 After that first year, 109 00:03:47,146 --> 00:03:50,197 we had taken a vacation up to Canada. 110 00:03:50,197 --> 00:03:52,658 I met a young French Canadian girl 111 00:03:52,658 --> 00:03:54,306 that I had an interest in, 112 00:03:54,306 --> 00:03:55,874 an infatuation with, 113 00:03:55,874 --> 00:03:57,516 and went up and visited her 114 00:03:57,516 --> 00:03:58,974 on my motorcycle. 115 00:03:58,974 --> 00:04:01,442 And then returned to college in Maryland 116 00:04:01,442 --> 00:04:03,242 for my second year of college. 117 00:04:03,242 --> 00:04:06,331 And that year was the worst year of my life. 118 00:04:06,331 --> 00:04:08,294 I began to spiral downward 119 00:04:08,294 --> 00:04:11,642 in a deeper and deeper depression. 120 00:04:11,642 --> 00:04:13,459 One reason was that relationship 121 00:04:13,459 --> 00:04:14,926 with this girl in Canada 122 00:04:14,926 --> 00:04:15,957 wasn't working out, 123 00:04:15,957 --> 00:04:16,940 but more than that, 124 00:04:16,940 --> 00:04:20,077 I had no purpose and meaning to my life. 125 00:04:20,077 --> 00:04:23,497 Francis Schaeffer once described my life 126 00:04:23,497 --> 00:04:26,612 as you take a woman's bead necklace, 127 00:04:26,612 --> 00:04:28,004 and you cut the string, 128 00:04:28,004 --> 00:04:29,524 and all the breads roll around 129 00:04:29,524 --> 00:04:32,058 with no string to tie them together. 130 00:04:32,058 --> 00:04:33,375 And that was my life. 131 00:04:33,375 --> 00:04:34,872 If you looked at each bead, 132 00:04:34,872 --> 00:04:36,088 I had loving parents, 133 00:04:36,088 --> 00:04:37,645 though not Christian. 134 00:04:37,645 --> 00:04:38,828 I was a good student. 135 00:04:38,828 --> 00:04:39,750 I played sports. 136 00:04:39,750 --> 00:04:40,544 I had friends. 137 00:04:40,544 --> 00:04:41,669 I joined a fraternity. 138 00:04:41,669 --> 00:04:42,825 My life was together 139 00:04:42,825 --> 00:04:45,145 from an external standpoint, 140 00:04:45,145 --> 00:04:46,800 but there was no string 141 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:48,378 to tie my life together. 142 00:04:48,378 --> 00:04:49,329 Why was I here? 143 00:04:49,329 --> 00:04:51,642 What was the purpose of my life? 144 00:04:51,642 --> 00:04:54,262 What was going to happen when I die? 145 00:04:54,262 --> 00:04:57,342 And so I began to spiral downward 146 00:04:57,342 --> 00:04:58,774 in depression. 147 00:04:58,774 --> 00:05:00,366 I had been on the wrestling team. 148 00:05:00,366 --> 00:05:02,592 but that year, I had no motivation, 149 00:05:02,592 --> 00:05:03,701 no drive. 150 00:05:03,701 --> 00:05:06,356 And I started, but then I quit the wrestling team. 151 00:05:06,356 --> 00:05:07,895 And second semester, I actually 152 00:05:07,895 --> 00:05:09,135 failed a course. 153 00:05:09,135 --> 00:05:11,230 I had never come close to failing a course. 154 00:05:11,230 --> 00:05:12,922 I didn't even go to the final exam. 155 00:05:12,922 --> 00:05:14,829 And that was a sign that I was sinking 156 00:05:14,829 --> 00:05:16,999 into a deep depression. 157 00:05:16,999 --> 00:05:18,473 It was the hippie era. 158 00:05:18,473 --> 00:05:20,483 This was 1970. 159 00:05:20,483 --> 00:05:23,360 And people were running to California. 160 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:24,225 I wasn't a hippie. 161 00:05:24,225 --> 00:05:25,778 I wasn't into drugs. 162 00:05:25,778 --> 00:05:28,232 But, I was so despairing 163 00:05:28,232 --> 00:05:30,726 that I was planning at the end of that year 164 00:05:30,726 --> 00:05:32,234 after the first week of May, 165 00:05:32,234 --> 00:05:33,548 to jump on my motorcycle, 166 00:05:33,548 --> 00:05:35,807 and run to California, 167 00:05:35,807 --> 00:05:37,410 which was unusual for me. 168 00:05:37,410 --> 00:05:38,901 I never did daring things. 169 00:05:38,901 --> 00:05:40,516 I didn't want to hurt my parents. 170 00:05:40,516 --> 00:05:41,674 I loved them. 171 00:05:41,674 --> 00:05:42,865 But I was so depressed, 172 00:05:42,865 --> 00:05:46,126 I just wanted to run away. 173 00:05:46,126 --> 00:05:49,779 May 1st, 1970 was a momentous day 174 00:05:49,779 --> 00:05:51,432 in my life. 175 00:05:51,432 --> 00:05:53,244 I was going down to the Chesapeake Bay 176 00:05:53,244 --> 00:05:55,633 in Maryland to study for a final exam. 177 00:05:55,633 --> 00:05:57,481 I had a fraternity brother on my back, 178 00:05:57,481 --> 00:05:58,906 on the back of my motorcycle. 179 00:05:58,906 --> 00:06:00,573 We were going to go to the beach, 180 00:06:00,573 --> 00:06:02,450 just catch some rays and study. 181 00:06:02,450 --> 00:06:03,654 There was a gully, 182 00:06:03,654 --> 00:06:06,674 and I asked him to hop off and I'd meet him on the other side. 183 00:06:06,674 --> 00:06:09,939 And when I kickstarted the engine, flames shot out of the carburetors 184 00:06:09,939 --> 00:06:11,508 for some unknown reason, 185 00:06:11,508 --> 00:06:12,816 and within seconds ignited 186 00:06:12,816 --> 00:06:14,208 that foam rubber seat. 187 00:06:14,208 --> 00:06:15,906 Perhaps I could have put it out 188 00:06:15,906 --> 00:06:17,121 if I had thought quickly, 189 00:06:17,121 --> 00:06:17,867 but I didn't. 190 00:06:17,867 --> 00:06:19,071 I dropped the motorcycle. 191 00:06:19,071 --> 00:06:20,686 We watched it go up in flames 192 00:06:20,686 --> 00:06:22,404 until we were bold enough to throw 193 00:06:22,404 --> 00:06:24,520 sand and dirt on it 194 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:26,008 and put the fire out. 195 00:06:26,008 --> 00:06:28,119 By that time, the motorcycle was ruined. 196 00:06:28,119 --> 00:06:32,421 It was a mass of melted rubber and plastic. 197 00:06:32,421 --> 00:06:34,456 Some friends came out from campus 198 00:06:34,456 --> 00:06:36,190 with a pickup truck, 199 00:06:36,190 --> 00:06:38,620 toted us back to campus. 200 00:06:38,620 --> 00:06:41,271 And I remember wheeling my motorcycle 201 00:06:41,271 --> 00:06:43,095 down to one of those do-it-yourself 202 00:06:43,095 --> 00:06:45,197 car washes to begin to clean it off 203 00:06:45,197 --> 00:06:47,788 and take it apart. 204 00:06:47,788 --> 00:06:52,480 It was so long ago, that it only cost 25 cents. 205 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:54,107 But I remember thinking, 206 00:06:54,107 --> 00:06:56,112 maybe the God of my Christian friends 207 00:06:56,112 --> 00:06:59,159 in New Jersey has the answer for me. 208 00:06:59,159 --> 00:07:01,631 And all I can tell you men 209 00:07:01,631 --> 00:07:04,580 is that some time in that next week, 210 00:07:04,580 --> 00:07:08,306 Jesus Christ came into my life. 211 00:07:08,306 --> 00:07:10,433 I never remember making a prayer, 212 00:07:10,433 --> 00:07:12,550 but I pieced together enough of the Gospel, 213 00:07:12,550 --> 00:07:14,961 I knew it was all about Jesus. 214 00:07:14,961 --> 00:07:16,986 And all I can say is that God must have 215 00:07:16,986 --> 00:07:20,681 regenerated me, given me faith. 216 00:07:20,681 --> 00:07:24,433 And in that first week, I was changed... 217 00:07:24,433 --> 00:07:25,528 forever. 218 00:07:25,528 --> 00:07:27,373 The depression lifted. 219 00:07:27,373 --> 00:07:29,599 The peace from God descended upon my life. 220 00:07:29,599 --> 00:07:31,473 I returned home to New Jersey 221 00:07:31,473 --> 00:07:33,865 a new creation in Christ 222 00:07:33,865 --> 00:07:35,997 47 and a half years ago. 223 00:07:35,997 --> 00:07:37,776 And three of the things that marked 224 00:07:37,776 --> 00:07:40,000 the change in my life were these: 225 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:40,880 Number one, 226 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:43,771 I had the assurance that my sins were forgiven. 227 00:07:43,771 --> 00:07:45,197 I can remember driving down 228 00:07:45,197 --> 00:07:47,463 the New Jersey Turnpike on my motorcycle 229 00:07:47,463 --> 00:07:48,948 with tractor trailers 230 00:07:48,948 --> 00:07:51,181 and making vows to God. 231 00:07:51,181 --> 00:07:52,291 And I remember thinking 232 00:07:52,291 --> 00:07:54,415 after I got my motorcycle rebuilt, 233 00:07:54,415 --> 00:07:55,974 I still don't want to wipe out 234 00:07:55,974 --> 00:07:57,029 on a patch of oil, 235 00:07:57,029 --> 00:07:59,110 but if I do, I'm going to heaven. 236 00:07:59,110 --> 00:08:01,952 I knew my sins were forgiven. 237 00:08:01,952 --> 00:08:03,994 Then, God gave me a hunger for the Bible. 238 00:08:03,994 --> 00:08:05,702 We didn't have a Bible in our home. 239 00:08:05,702 --> 00:08:08,245 We searched high and low, and I found my first Bible 240 00:08:08,245 --> 00:08:10,791 in the glove compartment of a Mayflower moving truck 241 00:08:10,791 --> 00:08:12,745 that I used to drive during the summers. 242 00:08:12,745 --> 00:08:14,077 I still have that Bible. 243 00:08:14,077 --> 00:08:16,301 A King James Bible with John 5 missing. 244 00:08:16,301 --> 00:08:17,724 It was a couple years before 245 00:08:17,724 --> 00:08:19,083 I got to read John 5, 246 00:08:19,083 --> 00:08:20,321 because for some reason, 247 00:08:20,321 --> 00:08:21,290 that was ripped out. 248 00:08:21,290 --> 00:08:22,599 But a hunger for the Bible, 249 00:08:22,599 --> 00:08:24,383 and if you look at that first Bible, 250 00:08:24,383 --> 00:08:26,094 it's highlighted and underlined, 251 00:08:26,094 --> 00:08:27,710 asterisks and stars and notes... 252 00:08:27,710 --> 00:08:30,545 it was just the hunger of that newborn babe 253 00:08:30,545 --> 00:08:32,558 for the milk of the Word. 254 00:08:32,558 --> 00:08:34,532 And the third change was 255 00:08:34,532 --> 00:08:36,565 I became a witness for Jesus. 256 00:08:36,565 --> 00:08:40,407 I was never a bold, in-your-face kind of person 257 00:08:40,407 --> 00:08:41,827 about anything. 258 00:08:41,827 --> 00:08:43,738 I had no strong opinions about anything. 259 00:08:43,738 --> 00:08:45,514 I had no message for anybody. 260 00:08:45,514 --> 00:08:47,398 But the realization that Jesus Christ 261 00:08:47,398 --> 00:08:49,878 was the key to everybody's eternity 262 00:08:49,878 --> 00:08:52,013 turned even a somewhat quiet, 263 00:08:52,013 --> 00:08:55,323 to himself kind of person 264 00:08:55,323 --> 00:08:57,134 into a person who carried around 265 00:08:57,134 --> 00:09:00,169 a satchel of tracts wherever I went 266 00:09:00,169 --> 00:09:03,342 and witnessed to everybody I could find. 267 00:09:03,342 --> 00:09:05,255 And those were the things that marked, 268 00:09:05,255 --> 00:09:08,928 the evidence that God had given me new life. 269 00:09:08,928 --> 00:09:10,571 If anybody is here 270 00:09:10,571 --> 00:09:13,623 and you're in that same position, 271 00:09:13,623 --> 00:09:15,362 life may be good; 272 00:09:15,362 --> 00:09:17,411 life may be rough. 273 00:09:17,411 --> 00:09:18,885 But there's no purpose, 274 00:09:18,885 --> 00:09:20,182 no sense of meaning. 275 00:09:20,182 --> 00:09:21,835 Why am I here? 276 00:09:21,835 --> 00:09:23,133 Is there a God? 277 00:09:23,133 --> 00:09:23,935 Who is He? 278 00:09:23,935 --> 00:09:26,714 Where am I going when I die? 279 00:09:26,714 --> 00:09:28,423 My prayer is that you would 280 00:09:28,423 --> 00:09:31,099 call upon Jesus Christ, 281 00:09:31,099 --> 00:09:32,719 the One Who changed my life 282 00:09:32,719 --> 00:09:34,397 47 and a half years ago, 283 00:09:34,397 --> 00:09:36,126 and that you would know 284 00:09:36,126 --> 00:09:38,104 the same experience of having His peace 285 00:09:38,104 --> 00:09:39,823 that He gave to me. 286 00:09:39,823 --> 00:09:42,315 I cannot account for my life, 287 00:09:42,315 --> 00:09:43,460 except for the fact that 288 00:09:43,460 --> 00:09:46,709 Jesus is a risen and living Savior. 289 00:09:46,709 --> 00:09:48,417 None of this pulling yourself up 290 00:09:48,417 --> 00:09:50,321 by your religious bootstraps. 291 00:09:50,321 --> 00:09:53,244 I had no strength to pull myself up 292 00:09:53,244 --> 00:09:55,084 by any bootstraps. 293 00:09:55,084 --> 00:09:57,355 Jesus came and visited me 294 00:09:57,355 --> 00:09:59,949 in Middle Hall on the campus 295 00:09:59,949 --> 00:10:01,105 of Washington College 296 00:10:01,105 --> 00:10:03,039 in Chestertown, Maryland 297 00:10:03,039 --> 00:10:05,459 47 and a half years ago 298 00:10:05,459 --> 00:10:07,211 and changed me forever. 299 00:10:07,211 --> 00:10:08,797 And if you're not a Christian, 300 00:10:08,797 --> 00:10:10,957 He can change and save you. 301 00:10:10,957 --> 00:10:15,447 Call upon Him. 302 00:10:15,447 --> 00:10:17,236 Brothers, our subject this weekend 303 00:10:17,236 --> 00:10:19,086 is emotions. 304 00:10:19,086 --> 00:10:21,626 What did we see last night? 305 00:10:21,626 --> 00:10:23,604 We saw that our emotions originated 306 00:10:23,604 --> 00:10:25,696 with our creation. 307 00:10:25,696 --> 00:10:27,425 We were made in the image of God. 308 00:10:27,425 --> 00:10:28,957 We were made to think. 309 00:10:28,957 --> 00:10:30,485 We were made to choose. 310 00:10:30,485 --> 00:10:33,452 And we were made to feel. 311 00:10:33,452 --> 00:10:35,288 But we saw that sin 312 00:10:35,288 --> 00:10:37,546 has disrupted our emotions 313 00:10:37,546 --> 00:10:38,926 and I noted three ways 314 00:10:38,926 --> 00:10:40,455 that the fall of man into sin 315 00:10:40,455 --> 00:10:43,245 has disrupted our emotions. 316 00:10:43,245 --> 00:10:45,656 It has constricted our emotions 317 00:10:45,656 --> 00:10:48,763 so that they are restricted and restrained. 318 00:10:48,763 --> 00:10:52,116 In some cases, numbed and cauterized. 319 00:10:52,116 --> 00:10:54,259 And so they're not given expression, 320 00:10:54,259 --> 00:10:55,892 at least certain emotions, 321 00:10:55,892 --> 00:10:58,249 as they should. 322 00:10:58,249 --> 00:11:01,257 Sin has constricted our emotions. 323 00:11:01,257 --> 00:11:04,061 Sin has also corrupted our emotions. 324 00:11:04,061 --> 00:11:06,636 Turned them upside down 325 00:11:06,636 --> 00:11:09,451 so that we rejoice when we should mourn, 326 00:11:09,451 --> 00:11:11,578 we mourn when we should rejoice, 327 00:11:11,578 --> 00:11:12,923 we delight in evil 328 00:11:12,923 --> 00:11:14,432 and we despise good. 329 00:11:14,432 --> 00:11:16,924 Emotions turned upside down, 330 00:11:16,924 --> 00:11:20,260 perverted and corrupted by sin. 331 00:11:20,260 --> 00:11:22,168 And then sometimes, 332 00:11:22,168 --> 00:11:23,720 sin has affected our emotions 333 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:26,478 in that our emotions come to control us. 334 00:11:26,478 --> 00:11:28,952 They grab the steering wheel away 335 00:11:28,952 --> 00:11:30,287 from our reason, 336 00:11:30,287 --> 00:11:31,763 and they lead our lives 337 00:11:31,763 --> 00:11:34,499 into destructive paths. 338 00:11:34,499 --> 00:11:37,357 But we saw that our emotions can be redeemed. 339 00:11:37,357 --> 00:11:40,013 They can be restored to something of what 340 00:11:40,013 --> 00:11:42,574 God intended in the first place. 341 00:11:42,574 --> 00:11:44,274 How so? 342 00:11:44,274 --> 00:11:47,211 By the saving work of Jesus Christ. 343 00:11:47,211 --> 00:11:49,408 That saving work begins 344 00:11:49,408 --> 00:11:51,554 with restoring our right standing 345 00:11:51,554 --> 00:11:53,085 before God, 346 00:11:53,085 --> 00:11:54,936 where we believe in Jesus, 347 00:11:54,936 --> 00:11:56,575 and God takes our sin, 348 00:11:56,575 --> 00:11:57,500 puts it on Jesus, 349 00:11:57,500 --> 00:11:59,077 takes the perfect righteousness 350 00:11:59,077 --> 00:12:00,039 earned by Jesus, 351 00:12:00,039 --> 00:12:01,735 credits it to us, 352 00:12:01,735 --> 00:12:03,465 and we are justified, 353 00:12:03,465 --> 00:12:05,515 declared righteous based on 354 00:12:05,515 --> 00:12:07,118 the righteousness of another. 355 00:12:07,118 --> 00:12:09,010 That's where salvation begins 356 00:12:09,010 --> 00:12:11,371 with the right standing with God. 357 00:12:11,371 --> 00:12:13,216 But it doesn't end there. 358 00:12:13,216 --> 00:12:16,614 It continues by restoring a right state. 359 00:12:16,614 --> 00:12:19,282 And God works in us by His Holy Spirit, 360 00:12:19,282 --> 00:12:21,217 beginning with regeneration, 361 00:12:21,217 --> 00:12:23,379 and then continuing the life-long process 362 00:12:23,379 --> 00:12:25,133 of sanctification - 363 00:12:25,133 --> 00:12:27,473 becoming more holy. 364 00:12:27,473 --> 00:12:29,799 And we noted that becoming more sanctified, 365 00:12:29,799 --> 00:12:32,451 becoming more holy is tantamount to saying 366 00:12:32,451 --> 00:12:37,254 becoming more like Jesus Christ. 367 00:12:37,254 --> 00:12:40,509 He is our perfect pattern of holiness. 368 00:12:40,509 --> 00:12:43,419 And specifically, He is our perfect pattern 369 00:12:43,419 --> 00:12:48,842 of holiness when it comes to the emotional life. 370 00:12:48,842 --> 00:12:50,734 He is the perfect representation 371 00:12:50,734 --> 00:12:52,231 of God the Father. 372 00:12:52,231 --> 00:12:54,874 He is the perfect embodiment of holiness 373 00:12:54,874 --> 00:12:58,095 which includes our emotional life. 374 00:12:58,095 --> 00:12:59,477 So as we are pressing on 375 00:12:59,477 --> 00:13:01,995 toward likeness to Christ, 376 00:13:01,997 --> 00:13:04,724 we should desire to think like Jesus, 377 00:13:04,724 --> 00:13:06,621 to act like Jesus, 378 00:13:06,621 --> 00:13:08,681 to react like Jesus, 379 00:13:08,681 --> 00:13:10,933 to interact with others like Jesus, 380 00:13:10,933 --> 00:13:14,599 and to feel like Jesus felt, 381 00:13:14,599 --> 00:13:19,160 to have the emotions that Jesus displayed. 382 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:21,293 And what I plan to do in this hour 383 00:13:21,293 --> 00:13:23,181 is to give you an overview 384 00:13:23,181 --> 00:13:27,142 of Jesus' emotional life. 385 00:13:27,142 --> 00:13:29,864 An overview of the emotional life of Jesus. 386 00:13:29,864 --> 00:13:31,788 And then, in the two remaining messages 387 00:13:31,788 --> 00:13:34,387 we want to key in on four of the emotions 388 00:13:34,387 --> 00:13:38,161 which are prominent in the Gospel accounts 389 00:13:38,161 --> 00:13:39,508 concerning Jesus. 390 00:13:39,508 --> 00:13:41,123 So the first thing we want to see 391 00:13:41,123 --> 00:13:43,322 is what I call the propriety of Jesus 392 00:13:43,322 --> 00:13:45,813 as our emotional example. 393 00:13:45,813 --> 00:13:48,054 Is it proper to look at Jesus 394 00:13:48,054 --> 00:13:51,384 as the example for our emotional life? 395 00:13:51,384 --> 00:13:53,972 I'm going to argue that it is. 396 00:13:53,972 --> 00:13:55,698 Now in the history of the church, 397 00:13:55,698 --> 00:13:58,362 it's not surprising that the main attack 398 00:13:58,362 --> 00:14:01,522 of Satan and demonic doctrines 399 00:14:01,522 --> 00:14:04,011 has been against the person and work 400 00:14:04,011 --> 00:14:05,553 of Christ. 401 00:14:05,553 --> 00:14:07,005 The person and work of Christ 402 00:14:07,005 --> 00:14:10,826 is the jugular vein of Christianity, right? 403 00:14:10,826 --> 00:14:13,010 If you see programs about lions 404 00:14:13,010 --> 00:14:14,420 on the African plains, 405 00:14:14,420 --> 00:14:16,201 when they stalk and when they attack 406 00:14:16,201 --> 00:14:18,248 their prey - a gazelle or something else - 407 00:14:18,248 --> 00:14:20,249 they don't attack the rump. 408 00:14:20,249 --> 00:14:21,934 They go for the jugular vein. 409 00:14:21,934 --> 00:14:23,781 They go for the kill. 410 00:14:23,781 --> 00:14:25,441 And the person and work of Christ 411 00:14:25,441 --> 00:14:27,898 is the jugular vein of Christianity. 412 00:14:27,898 --> 00:14:30,027 And so Satan, who is a roaring lion, 413 00:14:30,027 --> 00:14:31,893 goes after the jugular vein. 414 00:14:31,893 --> 00:14:33,654 He's going to attack those doctrines 415 00:14:33,654 --> 00:14:36,460 which are the essence of Christianity. 416 00:14:36,460 --> 00:14:37,978 And so he seeks to pervert 417 00:14:37,978 --> 00:14:40,409 either the person or the work of Christ. 418 00:14:40,409 --> 00:14:42,017 Now the biblical doctrine of the 419 00:14:42,017 --> 00:14:43,733 Person of Christ 420 00:14:43,733 --> 00:14:48,009 is that He is fully man and fully God. 421 00:14:48,009 --> 00:14:49,267 Now we can say that, 422 00:14:49,267 --> 00:14:50,207 and we should, 423 00:14:50,207 --> 00:14:52,059 but we can't begin to wrap our minds 424 00:14:52,059 --> 00:14:52,803 around it, 425 00:14:52,803 --> 00:14:54,745 but if you deny either of those truths, 426 00:14:54,745 --> 00:14:56,948 it will be fatal to your soul. 427 00:14:56,948 --> 00:14:58,543 Now you know in biblical times, 428 00:14:58,543 --> 00:14:59,871 there were those who denied 429 00:14:59,871 --> 00:15:01,673 the humanity of Jesus. 430 00:15:01,673 --> 00:15:03,012 Remember what John writes? 431 00:15:03,012 --> 00:15:05,021 Dealing with Gnostic's who didn't believe 432 00:15:05,021 --> 00:15:06,152 Jesus had a real body. 433 00:15:06,152 --> 00:15:07,367 He had a phantom body. 434 00:15:07,367 --> 00:15:08,865 So John says whoever confesses 435 00:15:08,865 --> 00:15:10,637 Jesus Christ has come in the flesh 436 00:15:10,637 --> 00:15:11,597 is of God. 437 00:15:11,597 --> 00:15:13,338 Whoever denies that Jesus has come 438 00:15:13,338 --> 00:15:16,078 in the flesh is not of God. 439 00:15:16,078 --> 00:15:17,647 In our modern day, 440 00:15:17,647 --> 00:15:19,463 there's more of a tendency to deny 441 00:15:19,463 --> 00:15:20,740 the deity of Christ 442 00:15:20,740 --> 00:15:22,206 as many of the cults do, 443 00:15:22,206 --> 00:15:23,646 as Jehovah's Witnesses, 444 00:15:23,646 --> 00:15:27,783 denying that Jesus is fully God. 445 00:15:27,783 --> 00:15:29,203 But one preacher, 446 00:15:29,203 --> 00:15:31,154 Allen Dunn, says when it comes 447 00:15:31,154 --> 00:15:32,424 to the emotions, 448 00:15:32,424 --> 00:15:35,858 we will be more tempted to overemphasize 449 00:15:35,858 --> 00:15:37,510 Christ's deity 450 00:15:37,510 --> 00:15:40,561 and to minimize His humanity. 451 00:15:40,561 --> 00:15:42,260 Now why is that? 452 00:15:42,260 --> 00:15:44,046 It might be because we want to say, 453 00:15:44,046 --> 00:15:48,114 be like Jesus in our emotions? 454 00:15:48,114 --> 00:15:49,290 That's not possible. 455 00:15:49,290 --> 00:15:51,615 Jesus was God! 456 00:15:51,615 --> 00:15:53,552 Well, Jesus was God, 457 00:15:53,552 --> 00:15:56,536 but Jesus also was fully man. 458 00:15:56,536 --> 00:15:58,605 So let me just take a couple minutes 459 00:15:58,605 --> 00:16:00,155 just to establish what I trust 460 00:16:00,155 --> 00:16:01,112 you all believe, 461 00:16:01,112 --> 00:16:03,225 and that is the full humanity of Jesus 462 00:16:03,225 --> 00:16:05,177 so that He is the proper role model 463 00:16:05,177 --> 00:16:07,391 and pattern for our emotional lives. 464 00:16:07,391 --> 00:16:09,492 Why do we believe that Jesus is fully man? 465 00:16:09,492 --> 00:16:11,480 Well, because the Bible makes some 466 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:14,043 very plain statements to that effect. 467 00:16:14,043 --> 00:16:16,383 John 1:1 - "In the beginning was the Word, 468 00:16:16,383 --> 00:16:17,952 the Word was with God, 469 00:16:17,952 --> 00:16:21,350 the Word was God." 470 00:16:21,350 --> 00:16:23,566 Verse 14 - the Word became what? 471 00:16:23,566 --> 00:16:25,611 Flesh and dwelt among us. 472 00:16:25,611 --> 00:16:28,703 Hebrews 2:14 - "Therefore, since the children..." 473 00:16:28,703 --> 00:16:30,472 That would be us - believers. 474 00:16:30,472 --> 00:16:32,445 "...share in flesh and blood, 475 00:16:32,445 --> 00:16:35,729 He himself likewise also partook of the same." 476 00:16:35,729 --> 00:16:37,206 For our sake, He partook of the 477 00:16:37,206 --> 00:16:38,648 flesh and blood humanity 478 00:16:38,648 --> 00:16:41,135 of which we are made. 479 00:16:41,135 --> 00:16:43,024 And then, the Bible shows that 480 00:16:43,024 --> 00:16:45,211 He possessed the essential elements 481 00:16:45,211 --> 00:16:47,461 of human nature. 482 00:16:47,461 --> 00:16:49,232 As a child, Luke says, 483 00:16:49,232 --> 00:16:51,656 He increased in wisdom and stature 484 00:16:51,656 --> 00:16:54,138 and in favor with God and men. 485 00:16:54,138 --> 00:16:55,979 Jesus had to grow physically 486 00:16:55,979 --> 00:16:57,818 in the same way we grow. 487 00:16:57,818 --> 00:17:00,891 He had to drink milk from His mother's breast 488 00:17:00,891 --> 00:17:04,149 to be nourished and later take solid food. 489 00:17:04,149 --> 00:17:08,361 Jesus went through the years of adolescence 490 00:17:08,361 --> 00:17:10,770 emerging into teenage years. 491 00:17:10,770 --> 00:17:14,137 He may have had to wrestle with acne 492 00:17:14,137 --> 00:17:17,014 or zits on His face as a teenager. 493 00:17:17,014 --> 00:17:18,454 He may have been gangly 494 00:17:18,454 --> 00:17:20,133 as some teenagers are, right? 495 00:17:20,133 --> 00:17:22,484 As their body's kind of growing too fast, 496 00:17:22,484 --> 00:17:23,567 knocking over things. 497 00:17:23,567 --> 00:17:25,620 Those are things not part of depravity. 498 00:17:25,620 --> 00:17:28,412 Those are things pertaining to humanity. 499 00:17:28,412 --> 00:17:31,027 Jesus had to grow in physical stature. 500 00:17:31,027 --> 00:17:32,515 He grew in wisdom. 501 00:17:32,515 --> 00:17:34,665 He had to learn the carpentry trade 502 00:17:34,665 --> 00:17:36,897 from His father Joseph. 503 00:17:36,897 --> 00:17:38,916 He had to be trained as an apprentice. 504 00:17:38,916 --> 00:17:40,756 He didn't just come in the first day, 505 00:17:40,756 --> 00:17:43,016 carve some beautiful yoke, you know? 506 00:17:43,016 --> 00:17:45,294 And Joseph says, wow, where'd you learn that? 507 00:17:45,294 --> 00:17:46,804 Well, you know, I'm God... 508 00:17:46,804 --> 00:17:48,266 No, Joseph had to train Him 509 00:17:48,266 --> 00:17:51,134 as an apprentice to be a carpenter, right? 510 00:17:51,134 --> 00:17:53,118 Jesus had to study the Bible. 511 00:17:53,118 --> 00:17:54,732 He had to study the Hebrew Bible 512 00:17:54,732 --> 00:17:55,952 and learn it. 513 00:17:55,952 --> 00:17:57,324 He didn't get it by osmosis. 514 00:17:57,324 --> 00:17:59,560 You know, put the Hebrew Bible under my pillow 515 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:01,594 and in the morning, I have it memorized. 516 00:18:01,594 --> 00:18:02,717 He had to study it. 517 00:18:02,717 --> 00:18:04,976 Now, as He read, as He learned, 518 00:18:04,976 --> 00:18:07,324 He always perfectly obeyed. 519 00:18:07,324 --> 00:18:09,983 But Jesus was fully man. 520 00:18:09,983 --> 00:18:13,008 We know that He became hungry 521 00:18:13,008 --> 00:18:14,887 after 40 days of fasting. 522 00:18:14,887 --> 00:18:17,478 On the cross, He said, "I thirst." 523 00:18:17,478 --> 00:18:20,032 He got tired and sat down by the well 524 00:18:20,032 --> 00:18:21,666 in Samaria. 525 00:18:21,666 --> 00:18:22,784 He got so bone tired, 526 00:18:22,784 --> 00:18:24,527 He was asleep in the back of a boat 527 00:18:24,527 --> 00:18:25,724 in the midst of a storm 528 00:18:25,724 --> 00:18:27,142 on the Sea of Galilee. 529 00:18:27,142 --> 00:18:28,282 And He died. 530 00:18:28,282 --> 00:18:30,663 So all the elements of human nature 531 00:18:30,663 --> 00:18:32,719 characterized Jesus. 532 00:18:32,719 --> 00:18:34,244 But then finally, 533 00:18:34,244 --> 00:18:35,984 I just want to note one passage 534 00:18:35,984 --> 00:18:39,994 from John 3:34-35 535 00:18:39,994 --> 00:18:43,226 that validates Jesus as our proper 536 00:18:43,226 --> 00:18:46,626 role model for our emotional life. 537 00:18:46,626 --> 00:18:48,870 We read in John 3:34-35, 538 00:18:48,870 --> 00:18:51,341 "For He Whom God has sent 539 00:18:51,341 --> 00:18:54,015 speaks the words of God. 540 00:18:54,015 --> 00:18:57,520 For He gives the Spirit without measure. 541 00:18:57,520 --> 00:18:59,103 The Father loves the Son 542 00:18:59,103 --> 00:19:02,116 and has given all things into His hand." 543 00:19:02,116 --> 00:19:04,005 Commentators understand that to mean 544 00:19:04,005 --> 00:19:05,932 that God the Father has given 545 00:19:05,932 --> 00:19:07,925 the Holy Spirit to Jesus 546 00:19:07,925 --> 00:19:10,148 in an unlimited way, 547 00:19:10,148 --> 00:19:12,800 so that the entire ministry of Jesus 548 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:15,895 was conducted in the power of the Holy Spirit. 549 00:19:15,895 --> 00:19:17,909 That Spirit came upon Him in His baptism. 550 00:19:17,909 --> 00:19:19,669 It was in the power of that Spirit, 551 00:19:19,669 --> 00:19:21,211 He went out into the wilderness 552 00:19:21,211 --> 00:19:22,258 and faced temptation. 553 00:19:22,258 --> 00:19:24,256 It was in the power of that Spirit 554 00:19:24,256 --> 00:19:25,938 that He worked His miracles. 555 00:19:25,938 --> 00:19:29,090 In the power of that Spirit He preached. 556 00:19:29,090 --> 00:19:30,136 He says in Luke 4 557 00:19:30,136 --> 00:19:31,969 the Spirit of the Lord is upon Me, 558 00:19:31,969 --> 00:19:33,525 because He anointed Me to preach 559 00:19:33,525 --> 00:19:35,520 the Gospel to the poor. 560 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:37,223 It was by the power of the Spirit, 561 00:19:37,223 --> 00:19:39,180 He offered Himself up on the cross 562 00:19:39,180 --> 00:19:40,505 to God the Father, 563 00:19:40,505 --> 00:19:42,891 and by the Spirit, He was raised. 564 00:19:42,891 --> 00:19:44,142 And my point is, 565 00:19:44,142 --> 00:19:47,200 it was by the power of the Spirit filling Him 566 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:51,068 that He conducted His emotional life. 567 00:19:51,068 --> 00:19:52,840 Now, the point is this, brothers. 568 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:57,431 That same Holy Spirit lives in you and me. 569 00:19:57,431 --> 00:19:58,650 And so we can't say 570 00:19:58,650 --> 00:20:00,731 well, I can't be like Jesus in my emotions 571 00:20:00,731 --> 00:20:01,990 because He was God. 572 00:20:01,990 --> 00:20:03,273 Yes, He is God, 573 00:20:03,273 --> 00:20:05,229 but He was fully man, 574 00:20:05,229 --> 00:20:07,138 filled with the Holy Spirit. 575 00:20:07,138 --> 00:20:09,133 Our command is to be perpetually 576 00:20:09,133 --> 00:20:11,677 be being filled with the Holy Spirit. 577 00:20:11,677 --> 00:20:14,601 So while we'll never attain perfection 578 00:20:14,601 --> 00:20:17,542 in any realm in this life, 579 00:20:17,542 --> 00:20:23,385 Jesus is our valid pattern for our emotional lives. 580 00:20:23,385 --> 00:20:25,155 Well now, let's consider the purity 581 00:20:25,155 --> 00:20:27,149 of Jesus' emotional life. 582 00:20:27,149 --> 00:20:31,406 Although fully man, He was wholly without sin. 583 00:20:31,406 --> 00:20:35,386 His emotions were not tainted with sin. 584 00:20:35,386 --> 00:20:36,508 And let's look at Jesus 585 00:20:36,508 --> 00:20:37,906 through the lens of 586 00:20:37,906 --> 00:20:39,890 what has disrupted our emotional lives. 587 00:20:39,890 --> 00:20:41,285 Remember we said our emotions 588 00:20:41,285 --> 00:20:42,666 are constricted; 589 00:20:42,666 --> 00:20:44,157 our emotions are corrupted; 590 00:20:44,157 --> 00:20:46,093 our emotions are controlling. 591 00:20:46,093 --> 00:20:49,534 Let's look at Jesus in those regards. 592 00:20:49,534 --> 00:20:50,297 First of all, 593 00:20:50,297 --> 00:20:53,550 Jesus was not constricted or restrained 594 00:20:53,550 --> 00:20:55,616 in His emotions. 595 00:20:55,616 --> 00:20:57,939 I'm going to quote James Stalker, 596 00:20:57,939 --> 00:21:01,140 a Scotsman living in the late 1800's/early 1900's. 597 00:21:01,140 --> 00:21:02,917 And he makes a beautiful statement 598 00:21:02,917 --> 00:21:04,428 about Jesus. 599 00:21:04,428 --> 00:21:07,090 He says, "Jesus was as refined 600 00:21:07,090 --> 00:21:09,091 and delicate in feeling 601 00:21:09,091 --> 00:21:11,706 as He was wise in speech 602 00:21:11,706 --> 00:21:13,547 and mighty in act. 603 00:21:13,547 --> 00:21:16,269 He taught mankind to feel finally. 604 00:21:16,269 --> 00:21:18,290 And ever since He was in the world, 605 00:21:18,290 --> 00:21:20,090 there have been increasing numbers 606 00:21:20,090 --> 00:21:21,627 who have learned from Him 607 00:21:21,627 --> 00:21:24,446 to regard childhood, and women, 608 00:21:24,446 --> 00:21:26,644 poverty, and service, 609 00:21:26,644 --> 00:21:29,083 and many other objects with sentiments 610 00:21:29,083 --> 00:21:31,078 totally different from those with which 611 00:21:31,078 --> 00:21:33,981 they were regarded before His advent. 612 00:21:33,981 --> 00:21:35,673 Nor would it be difficult to trace 613 00:21:35,673 --> 00:21:37,439 the refining influence 614 00:21:37,439 --> 00:21:38,894 which intercourse with Him had 615 00:21:38,894 --> 00:21:40,571 on His disciples; 616 00:21:40,571 --> 00:21:43,139 how they learned to feel about things 617 00:21:43,139 --> 00:21:44,757 as He did." 618 00:21:44,757 --> 00:21:46,181 You know what He's saying. 619 00:21:46,181 --> 00:21:48,144 Nearly everybody agrees that 620 00:21:48,144 --> 00:21:49,674 the teaching of Jesus 621 00:21:49,674 --> 00:21:53,377 has had a profound effect on the human race, right? 622 00:21:53,377 --> 00:21:55,621 Even unbelievers will acknowledge that 623 00:21:55,621 --> 00:21:57,170 who don't regard His deity. 624 00:21:57,170 --> 00:21:58,778 But what Stalker is saying 625 00:21:58,778 --> 00:22:01,437 is that Jesus' emotional life 626 00:22:01,437 --> 00:22:05,108 has had a vast impact upon the world. 627 00:22:05,108 --> 00:22:07,276 The world has never been the same 628 00:22:07,276 --> 00:22:10,431 since Jesus Christ walked on its shores 629 00:22:10,431 --> 00:22:13,569 because of His emotional life. 630 00:22:13,569 --> 00:22:16,025 And the thing about Jesus' emotional life 631 00:22:16,025 --> 00:22:19,201 is He was not restrained and restricted. 632 00:22:19,201 --> 00:22:22,103 He was not bottled up and repressed 633 00:22:22,103 --> 00:22:23,970 in His emotional life. 634 00:22:23,970 --> 00:22:25,549 As we'll see in a few minutes, 635 00:22:25,549 --> 00:22:28,313 His emotional life was very expansive 636 00:22:28,313 --> 00:22:30,272 and very expressive. 637 00:22:30,272 --> 00:22:34,385 He displayed the full spectrum of human emotions. 638 00:22:34,385 --> 00:22:35,957 Whereas, our emotions are often 639 00:22:35,957 --> 00:22:37,777 constricted in certain areas 640 00:22:37,777 --> 00:22:38,884 and restrained - 641 00:22:38,884 --> 00:22:40,800 His were not. 642 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,683 Further, He gave appropriate expression 643 00:22:43,683 --> 00:22:45,536 to His emotions. 644 00:22:45,536 --> 00:22:46,697 Listen to B.B. Warfield 645 00:22:46,697 --> 00:22:48,207 who wrote an excellent article 646 00:22:48,207 --> 00:22:52,135 100 years ago on the emotional life of Jesus. 647 00:22:52,135 --> 00:22:54,471 He said, "But the bodily expression 648 00:22:54,471 --> 00:22:56,675 of the emotions (in Jesus) 649 00:22:56,675 --> 00:22:59,222 is also frequently expressly attested. 650 00:22:59,222 --> 00:23:01,713 Not only do we read that He wept 651 00:23:01,713 --> 00:23:04,323 and wailed, sighed and groaned, 652 00:23:04,323 --> 00:23:07,097 but we read also of His angry glare, 653 00:23:07,097 --> 00:23:08,330 His annoyed speech, 654 00:23:08,330 --> 00:23:10,293 His chiding words, 655 00:23:10,293 --> 00:23:12,960 the outbreaking ebullition of His rage, 656 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:14,995 of the agitation of His bearing 657 00:23:14,995 --> 00:23:16,514 when under strong feeling, 658 00:23:16,514 --> 00:23:19,122 the open exultation of His joy, 659 00:23:19,122 --> 00:23:20,913 the unrest of His movements 660 00:23:20,913 --> 00:23:22,824 in the face of anticipated evils, 661 00:23:22,824 --> 00:23:24,830 the loud cry which was wrung from Him 662 00:23:24,830 --> 00:23:26,844 in His moment of desolation. 663 00:23:26,844 --> 00:23:29,934 Nothing is lacking to make the impression strong 664 00:23:29,934 --> 00:23:31,928 that we have before us in Jesus, 665 00:23:31,928 --> 00:23:34,787 a human being like ourselves." 666 00:23:34,787 --> 00:23:36,515 You see, to be more fully 667 00:23:36,515 --> 00:23:38,616 and healthily human, as Jesus is, 668 00:23:38,616 --> 00:23:41,658 is not to be less emotional. 669 00:23:41,658 --> 00:23:44,841 It is generally to be more emotional. 670 00:23:44,841 --> 00:23:48,147 Jesus was not constricted in His emotions. 671 00:23:48,147 --> 00:23:51,291 Jesus was not corrupted in His emotions. 672 00:23:51,291 --> 00:23:53,576 We are told that He was tempted in all things 673 00:23:53,576 --> 00:23:55,604 as we are, yet without sin. 674 00:23:55,604 --> 00:23:58,129 It is appropriate to put before 675 00:23:58,129 --> 00:24:01,725 every emotion of Jesus the word "holy." 676 00:24:01,725 --> 00:24:03,166 Holy grief. 677 00:24:03,166 --> 00:24:04,353 Holy anger. 678 00:24:04,353 --> 00:24:05,550 Holy joy. 679 00:24:05,550 --> 00:24:06,951 Holy exasperation. 680 00:24:06,951 --> 00:24:08,754 Because in all of His emotions, 681 00:24:08,754 --> 00:24:10,042 He was without sin. 682 00:24:10,042 --> 00:24:12,454 That's why He's such a perfect guide. 683 00:24:12,454 --> 00:24:14,075 We can look at one another, 684 00:24:14,075 --> 00:24:16,569 some of us are more or less mature emotionally, 685 00:24:16,569 --> 00:24:18,749 but none of us is a perfect example. 686 00:24:18,749 --> 00:24:20,220 We all have to say imitate me 687 00:24:20,220 --> 00:24:22,101 only insofar as I imitate Christ. 688 00:24:22,101 --> 00:24:23,544 But when we look at Christ, 689 00:24:23,544 --> 00:24:24,951 there's no qualification. 690 00:24:24,951 --> 00:24:26,598 Imitate Christ. 691 00:24:26,598 --> 00:24:30,336 Because He was not corrupted in His emotions. 692 00:24:30,336 --> 00:24:33,448 And He was not controlled by His emotions. 693 00:24:33,448 --> 00:24:35,980 As we view the life and ministry of Jesus, 694 00:24:35,980 --> 00:24:38,505 we never see Him out of control. 695 00:24:38,505 --> 00:24:41,044 His emotions were strong. 696 00:24:41,044 --> 00:24:44,158 But they were under control of His reason. 697 00:24:44,158 --> 00:24:45,933 They never took center stage. 698 00:24:45,933 --> 00:24:47,154 And think about it, 699 00:24:47,154 --> 00:24:49,202 Jesus was under tremendous pressure 700 00:24:49,202 --> 00:24:50,896 during His ministry, wasn't He? 701 00:24:50,896 --> 00:24:52,568 Can you imagine having your enemy 702 00:24:52,568 --> 00:24:53,923 stalking you? 703 00:24:53,923 --> 00:24:55,981 Always waiting in the wings for you 704 00:24:55,981 --> 00:24:57,745 to say or do something amiss 705 00:24:57,745 --> 00:24:59,864 so they could go out and plot your death? 706 00:24:59,864 --> 00:25:02,034 Can you imagine living with the realization 707 00:25:02,034 --> 00:25:05,183 that one of your close band of twelve 708 00:25:05,183 --> 00:25:07,229 would be a treacherous traitor 709 00:25:07,229 --> 00:25:08,617 and would betray you? 710 00:25:08,617 --> 00:25:10,241 But John 6:64 says, 711 00:25:10,241 --> 00:25:12,212 "Jesus knew from the beginning 712 00:25:12,212 --> 00:25:14,828 who it was that would betray Him." 713 00:25:14,828 --> 00:25:16,350 And He had to love this man 714 00:25:16,350 --> 00:25:19,658 like He loved the other eleven. 715 00:25:19,658 --> 00:25:21,247 Jesus had the constant demand 716 00:25:21,247 --> 00:25:24,348 of the multitudes pressing in upon Him 717 00:25:24,348 --> 00:25:26,614 to heal and to cast out demons. 718 00:25:26,614 --> 00:25:30,451 He had to deal with the thick-headed disciples 719 00:25:30,451 --> 00:25:32,084 who just weren't getting it. 720 00:25:32,084 --> 00:25:33,911 All of these things to bring 721 00:25:33,911 --> 00:25:35,886 pressure upon Jesus, 722 00:25:35,886 --> 00:25:39,491 to provoke Him in His emotions. 723 00:25:39,491 --> 00:25:42,653 But His emotions were never out of control. 724 00:25:42,653 --> 00:25:44,919 You see His holy anger in the temple. 725 00:25:44,919 --> 00:25:46,656 Turning over tables, making a whip, 726 00:25:46,656 --> 00:25:47,976 driving out the animals, 727 00:25:47,976 --> 00:25:50,703 clanging the coins on the floor. 728 00:25:50,703 --> 00:25:52,276 But He never lost it 729 00:25:52,276 --> 00:25:53,497 in an irrational rage. 730 00:25:53,497 --> 00:25:56,412 He didn't turn and start punching the Pharisees out, right? 731 00:25:56,412 --> 00:25:58,218 Even that was under control. 732 00:25:58,218 --> 00:26:00,243 Perhaps the greatest physical display 733 00:26:00,243 --> 00:26:02,332 of His anger that we see in the Scripture, 734 00:26:02,332 --> 00:26:03,820 but it was controlled. 735 00:26:03,820 --> 00:26:05,764 His compassion. 736 00:26:05,764 --> 00:26:08,175 Oh, when we study His compassion 737 00:26:08,175 --> 00:26:09,159 in the next message. 738 00:26:09,159 --> 00:26:11,619 How the heart of Jesus was drawn out 739 00:26:11,619 --> 00:26:13,940 in willing service to meet the needs 740 00:26:13,940 --> 00:26:16,505 and relieve the misery of people. 741 00:26:16,505 --> 00:26:18,781 There's an incident where He's in Capernaum, 742 00:26:18,781 --> 00:26:20,865 and He's up late, casting out demons, 743 00:26:20,865 --> 00:26:21,905 healing people. 744 00:26:21,905 --> 00:26:23,831 He goes off to be with His Father. 745 00:26:23,831 --> 00:26:25,967 And it's in Luke 4:42-43, 746 00:26:25,967 --> 00:26:27,535 and the people come after Him 747 00:26:27,535 --> 00:26:29,312 to try to pull Him back. 748 00:26:29,312 --> 00:26:31,110 And He's been in prayer. 749 00:26:31,110 --> 00:26:32,986 And He says, no, we must go 750 00:26:32,986 --> 00:26:35,154 to other cities and preach there also, 751 00:26:35,154 --> 00:26:38,181 because that's why I came out. 752 00:26:38,181 --> 00:26:39,916 He never let His emotions, 753 00:26:39,916 --> 00:26:41,121 even of compassion, 754 00:26:41,121 --> 00:26:45,510 rule Him and override the Father's agenda 755 00:26:45,510 --> 00:26:46,914 for Him. 756 00:26:46,914 --> 00:26:48,457 No, I know there are people 757 00:26:48,457 --> 00:26:49,651 I haven't healed, 758 00:26:49,651 --> 00:26:51,015 but My Father's agenda 759 00:26:51,015 --> 00:26:52,559 is that I go to other cities 760 00:26:52,559 --> 00:26:54,089 and preach to them. 761 00:26:54,089 --> 00:26:55,453 So even in His compassion, 762 00:26:55,453 --> 00:26:56,912 it didn't so overwhelm Him, 763 00:26:56,912 --> 00:27:00,303 that it overrode His apprehension 764 00:27:00,303 --> 00:27:02,374 of His Father's will for Him. 765 00:27:02,374 --> 00:27:07,313 And we see Him in John 12, 766 00:27:07,313 --> 00:27:09,330 before Gethsemane. 767 00:27:09,330 --> 00:27:13,533 Certain Greeks are asking to see Jesus. 768 00:27:13,533 --> 00:27:14,745 Greeks. 769 00:27:14,745 --> 00:27:16,284 And the mention of these Greeks 770 00:27:16,284 --> 00:27:17,948 reminds Him that He's come to die 771 00:27:17,948 --> 00:27:19,783 for the sins of the whole world - 772 00:27:19,783 --> 00:27:21,394 not only Jews. 773 00:27:21,394 --> 00:27:24,830 And He says now is My soul troubled. 774 00:27:24,830 --> 00:27:26,080 What shall I say? 775 00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:27,703 A little precursor to the garden. 776 00:27:27,703 --> 00:27:28,715 What shall I say? 777 00:27:28,715 --> 00:27:30,814 Father, save Me from this hour? 778 00:27:30,814 --> 00:27:33,756 No. For this purpose, I have come to this hour. 779 00:27:33,756 --> 00:27:35,625 Father, glorify Your name. 780 00:27:35,625 --> 00:27:37,433 And the Father answers from Heaven: 781 00:27:37,433 --> 00:27:38,957 I have glorified it, 782 00:27:38,957 --> 00:27:41,316 and I will glorify it again. 783 00:27:41,316 --> 00:27:43,172 You know the emotion of fear, 784 00:27:43,172 --> 00:27:46,356 trepidation - I want to get out of this thing. 785 00:27:46,356 --> 00:27:48,430 But, no. No. 786 00:27:48,430 --> 00:27:50,046 I've come for this purpose. 787 00:27:50,046 --> 00:27:51,457 Father, glorify Your name. 788 00:27:51,457 --> 00:27:53,033 And the Father from Heaven says, 789 00:27:53,033 --> 00:27:55,188 even at the expense of the death of His Son, 790 00:27:55,188 --> 00:27:56,415 I have glorified it, 791 00:27:56,415 --> 00:27:57,991 and I will glorify it again. 792 00:27:57,991 --> 00:28:02,020 I will glorify My name in the death of You, My Son. 793 00:28:02,020 --> 00:28:03,170 But you see again, 794 00:28:03,170 --> 00:28:05,127 where the emotions of Jesus 795 00:28:05,127 --> 00:28:07,358 did not control Him 796 00:28:07,358 --> 00:28:09,791 as they sometimes control us. 797 00:28:09,791 --> 00:28:11,482 Men, let's look next 798 00:28:11,482 --> 00:28:14,114 at what I'm calling the perfect symmetry 799 00:28:14,114 --> 00:28:16,725 of Jesus' emotional life. 800 00:28:16,725 --> 00:28:20,506 He had perfectly balanced emotions. 801 00:28:20,506 --> 00:28:23,146 There's a picture of perfect balance 802 00:28:23,146 --> 00:28:26,307 in His humanity and in His emotions. 803 00:28:26,307 --> 00:28:29,697 You know, we are all so imbalanced 804 00:28:29,697 --> 00:28:31,986 that the psychologists can label us 805 00:28:31,986 --> 00:28:34,108 according to certain temperaments. 806 00:28:34,108 --> 00:28:35,662 You know how psychologists 807 00:28:35,662 --> 00:28:37,117 and even sometimes Christians 808 00:28:37,117 --> 00:28:38,233 try to do this? 809 00:28:38,233 --> 00:28:41,010 One of the classifications is according to 810 00:28:41,010 --> 00:28:43,166 the ancient bodily humors? 811 00:28:43,166 --> 00:28:44,506 Have you heard of this? 812 00:28:44,506 --> 00:28:46,144 The sanguine temperament, 813 00:28:46,144 --> 00:28:48,350 the phlegmatic, the choleric, 814 00:28:48,350 --> 00:28:50,012 and the melancholic? 815 00:28:50,012 --> 00:28:51,997 Well, let me give you a little rundown 816 00:28:51,997 --> 00:28:54,614 on what each one represents. 817 00:28:54,614 --> 00:28:57,183 The sanguine personality: 818 00:28:57,183 --> 00:28:59,574 extroverted, lively, fun-loving, 819 00:28:59,574 --> 00:29:01,886 activity-prone, impulsive, entertaining, 820 00:29:01,886 --> 00:29:07,225 persuasive, optimistic - sanguine. 821 00:29:07,225 --> 00:29:09,607 The phlegmatic personality: 822 00:29:09,607 --> 00:29:11,774 introverted, calm, unemotional, 823 00:29:11,774 --> 00:29:13,186 easy-going, laid back, 824 00:29:13,186 --> 00:29:15,528 never get upset person. 825 00:29:15,528 --> 00:29:18,048 Choleric: extroverted, hot-tempered, 826 00:29:18,048 --> 00:29:19,787 quick-thinking, active, practical, 827 00:29:19,787 --> 00:29:22,190 strong-willed, easily annoyed, 828 00:29:22,190 --> 00:29:25,704 self-confident, self-sufficient - choleric. 829 00:29:25,704 --> 00:29:29,295 Melancholic - introverted, logical, 830 00:29:29,295 --> 00:29:32,641 analytical, factual, private, 831 00:29:32,641 --> 00:29:34,150 reserved, suspicious, 832 00:29:34,150 --> 00:29:36,125 skeptical about most things, 833 00:29:36,125 --> 00:29:39,930 prone to negativity and depression. 834 00:29:39,930 --> 00:29:42,577 And then you have the Type A personalities. 835 00:29:42,577 --> 00:29:43,432 You hear that? 836 00:29:43,432 --> 00:29:45,228 He's a Type A personality. 837 00:29:45,228 --> 00:29:46,144 He's competitive. 838 00:29:46,144 --> 00:29:46,997 He's an achiever. 839 00:29:46,997 --> 00:29:48,013 He's a multi-tasker, 840 00:29:48,013 --> 00:29:48,800 success driven; 841 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:49,881 he needs to win. 842 00:29:49,881 --> 00:29:51,987 The Type B personality, 843 00:29:51,987 --> 00:29:53,518 like the phlegmatic, 844 00:29:53,518 --> 00:29:54,401 more relaxed, 845 00:29:54,401 --> 00:29:56,764 they don't take stressful situations personally. 846 00:29:56,764 --> 00:29:59,185 They could be highly competitive, but they don't have the same urgency 847 00:29:59,185 --> 00:30:01,248 to see a successful outcome. 848 00:30:01,248 --> 00:30:03,760 Type A, Type B, Type C, Type D. 849 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:05,201 As you hear those, 850 00:30:05,201 --> 00:30:06,254 most of us can say, 851 00:30:06,254 --> 00:30:09,118 yeah, that sounds like me, right? 852 00:30:09,118 --> 00:30:11,566 Yeah, I'm more like that. 853 00:30:11,566 --> 00:30:13,758 But you know why we can say that? 854 00:30:13,758 --> 00:30:16,922 Because we are so imbalanced. 855 00:30:16,922 --> 00:30:19,082 I'm strong in this, 856 00:30:19,082 --> 00:30:22,800 but it's because I'm weak in this. 857 00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:26,922 You know, I may be an aggressive achiever, 858 00:30:26,922 --> 00:30:28,002 but in the process, 859 00:30:28,002 --> 00:30:29,979 I run roughshod over people 860 00:30:29,979 --> 00:30:32,262 with insensitivity. 861 00:30:32,262 --> 00:30:34,103 Or, I may be sensitive, 862 00:30:34,103 --> 00:30:37,039 but too prone to negativity and depression. 863 00:30:37,039 --> 00:30:39,338 Or, I might be lighthearted and fun-loving, 864 00:30:39,338 --> 00:30:40,943 but run the risk of levity 865 00:30:40,943 --> 00:30:42,334 and not being reverent. 866 00:30:42,334 --> 00:30:44,527 You see, we can be characterized 867 00:30:44,527 --> 00:30:47,064 by those psychological temperaments 868 00:30:47,064 --> 00:30:51,053 because we are sinfully imbalanced, right? 869 00:30:51,053 --> 00:30:53,450 Not so Jesus. 870 00:30:53,450 --> 00:30:57,289 Jesus would confound the temperament analysts 871 00:30:57,289 --> 00:31:00,165 and the personality gurus. 872 00:31:00,165 --> 00:31:01,978 You can't pin Jesus down 873 00:31:01,978 --> 00:31:04,691 to a personality type. 874 00:31:04,691 --> 00:31:07,160 One author, Otto Borchard, 875 00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:08,830 in his book, "The Orginal Jesus," 876 00:31:08,830 --> 00:31:12,356 cited by Pastor Allen Dunn, 877 00:31:12,356 --> 00:31:14,446 and I'm just going to paraphrase here. 878 00:31:14,446 --> 00:31:15,562 He says this, 879 00:31:15,562 --> 00:31:16,778 you know you see Jesus 880 00:31:16,778 --> 00:31:18,110 cleansing the temple 881 00:31:18,110 --> 00:31:19,553 with great fervor and you say 882 00:31:19,553 --> 00:31:22,065 He's a choleric temperament. 883 00:31:22,065 --> 00:31:23,737 But then you see Him sleeping 884 00:31:23,737 --> 00:31:25,679 in the back of the boat during a storm, 885 00:31:25,679 --> 00:31:29,157 and you say well, He's a laid back phlegmatic. 886 00:31:29,157 --> 00:31:31,747 Or then you see Jesus in contrast to John. 887 00:31:31,747 --> 00:31:33,049 John comes with austerity. 888 00:31:33,049 --> 00:31:34,642 Jesus comes eating and drinking. 889 00:31:34,642 --> 00:31:36,296 He's making wine at a wedding, 890 00:31:36,296 --> 00:31:38,397 and He's mixing it up with people socially 891 00:31:38,397 --> 00:31:39,837 and you say surely Jesus has 892 00:31:39,837 --> 00:31:41,971 a sanguine personality. 893 00:31:41,971 --> 00:31:43,988 And then you see Him weeping at the tomb 894 00:31:43,988 --> 00:31:45,238 of Lazarus and you say, 895 00:31:45,238 --> 00:31:47,026 He's a melancholic. 896 00:31:47,026 --> 00:31:48,452 He's none of those. 897 00:31:48,452 --> 00:31:50,529 You see, you can't pin Jesus down 898 00:31:50,529 --> 00:31:52,722 to a personality type 899 00:31:52,722 --> 00:31:55,133 because He had a perfectly balanced 900 00:31:55,133 --> 00:31:57,467 emotional life. 901 00:31:57,467 --> 00:32:00,134 Another author, Clifford Pond, 902 00:32:00,134 --> 00:32:02,153 also quoted by Pastor Dunn, 903 00:32:02,153 --> 00:32:06,730 shows the amazing clash of contrasts in Jesus. 904 00:32:06,730 --> 00:32:09,844 He says this, "He is frank and communicative, 905 00:32:09,844 --> 00:32:11,232 open about His need, 906 00:32:11,232 --> 00:32:12,886 His fear, His joy, 907 00:32:12,886 --> 00:32:15,326 and yet He can be reclusive, 908 00:32:15,326 --> 00:32:18,095 walking alone, spending nights alone 909 00:32:18,095 --> 00:32:19,975 in prayer to God. 910 00:32:19,975 --> 00:32:21,839 He can treat His disciples as friends 911 00:32:21,839 --> 00:32:23,972 because everything He hears from the Father 912 00:32:23,972 --> 00:32:24,992 He divulges to them. 913 00:32:24,992 --> 00:32:26,660 But He holds back certain things 914 00:32:26,660 --> 00:32:28,944 because they cannot bear them. 915 00:32:28,944 --> 00:32:30,833 He can be so serene at times, 916 00:32:30,833 --> 00:32:32,050 and yet at other times, 917 00:32:32,050 --> 00:32:33,825 be moved to the depths of His being 918 00:32:33,825 --> 00:32:36,481 with great upheavals in His inner man. 919 00:32:36,481 --> 00:32:39,601 He is mild yet intensely earnest. 920 00:32:39,601 --> 00:32:42,761 He is heroic yet full of tenderness. 921 00:32:42,761 --> 00:32:45,255 His words are wonderfully profound, 922 00:32:45,255 --> 00:32:47,933 and yet transparently clear." 923 00:32:47,933 --> 00:32:49,175 And then he says this - 924 00:32:49,175 --> 00:32:50,740 this is a beautiful statement. 925 00:32:50,740 --> 00:32:55,278 "His business is to conquer the world. 926 00:32:55,278 --> 00:32:57,113 Yet He can talk to an ordinary, 927 00:32:57,113 --> 00:33:00,479 common woman so searchingly 928 00:33:00,479 --> 00:33:02,151 that one might almost think 929 00:33:02,151 --> 00:33:03,653 the salvation of her soul 930 00:33:03,653 --> 00:33:05,532 was His only concern." 931 00:33:05,532 --> 00:33:06,780 Isn't that beautiful? 932 00:33:06,780 --> 00:33:08,214 His job is to save the world! 933 00:33:08,214 --> 00:33:09,662 But He's talking to that woman 934 00:33:09,662 --> 00:33:12,328 as though she is the only one that needs to be saved. 935 00:33:12,328 --> 00:33:15,003 Oh, our Lord is so beautiful 936 00:33:15,003 --> 00:33:21,651 in His emotional life. 937 00:33:21,651 --> 00:33:27,364 Perfect purity yields perfect symmetry. 938 00:33:27,364 --> 00:33:28,788 We need to ask ourselves, 939 00:33:28,788 --> 00:33:31,071 where are we imbalanced 940 00:33:31,071 --> 00:33:32,722 in our emotional life? 941 00:33:32,722 --> 00:33:35,863 Maybe you're very compassionate and tender, 942 00:33:35,863 --> 00:33:38,184 but you never get angry about anything. 943 00:33:38,184 --> 00:33:41,422 Jesus got angry about certain things. 944 00:33:41,422 --> 00:33:43,726 Maybe you have no problem with anger, 945 00:33:43,726 --> 00:33:46,382 but your problem is being compassionate 946 00:33:46,382 --> 00:33:48,333 and tender. 947 00:33:48,333 --> 00:33:51,597 Maybe you have sorrow like Jesus, 948 00:33:51,597 --> 00:33:54,081 but you don't have a lot of joy. 949 00:33:54,081 --> 00:33:56,865 Or maybe you have joy, 950 00:33:56,865 --> 00:33:58,966 but you don't know how to weep 951 00:33:58,966 --> 00:34:01,311 over the things that made Jesus weep. 952 00:34:01,311 --> 00:34:03,635 We are so sinfully imbalanced, 953 00:34:03,635 --> 00:34:06,294 but men, behold your Lord. 954 00:34:06,294 --> 00:34:10,711 Perfect symmetry in His emotional life. 955 00:34:10,711 --> 00:34:12,476 The next thing we look at: 956 00:34:12,476 --> 00:34:16,078 the absence of sentimentality 957 00:34:16,078 --> 00:34:18,840 in Jesus' emotional life. 958 00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:20,309 Now what's the difference 959 00:34:20,309 --> 00:34:23,437 between sentiment and sentimentality 960 00:34:23,437 --> 00:34:25,388 or sentimentalism? 961 00:34:25,388 --> 00:34:27,132 I had to do a little study on this 962 00:34:27,132 --> 00:34:28,261 to understand, 963 00:34:28,261 --> 00:34:29,487 but there's a difference. 964 00:34:29,487 --> 00:34:31,954 Sentiment is simply feeling. 965 00:34:31,954 --> 00:34:38,114 Sentimentality is kind of excessive feeling, 966 00:34:38,114 --> 00:34:40,471 or feeling that is disproportionate 967 00:34:40,471 --> 00:34:42,203 to the situation. 968 00:34:42,203 --> 00:34:44,926 For example, if you weep over the death 969 00:34:44,926 --> 00:34:46,804 of a child, 970 00:34:46,804 --> 00:34:50,524 that is very, very appropriate. 971 00:34:50,524 --> 00:34:52,524 But if you weep over a mouse 972 00:34:52,524 --> 00:34:54,440 caught in a mouse trap, 973 00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:56,679 there's something out of balance with that. 974 00:34:56,679 --> 00:34:58,371 I don't care if his big brown eyes 975 00:34:58,371 --> 00:34:59,619 are looking up at you... 976 00:34:59,619 --> 00:35:02,719 You don't weep over a mouse. 977 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,498 He's a rodent! 978 00:35:05,498 --> 00:35:07,315 That's a sentimentality, 979 00:35:07,315 --> 00:35:08,895 that's an excessive emotion 980 00:35:08,895 --> 00:35:12,053 that doesn't fit the situation. 981 00:35:12,053 --> 00:35:13,701 And sometimes we associate 982 00:35:13,701 --> 00:35:16,094 sentimentality, which is out of balance 983 00:35:16,094 --> 00:35:18,096 with reason, with words like gushy, 984 00:35:18,096 --> 00:35:20,946 mushy, maudlin, schmaltzy, drippy, 985 00:35:20,946 --> 00:35:24,420 over-emotional and tear-jerking. 986 00:35:24,420 --> 00:35:26,358 You know, people can get sentimental 987 00:35:26,358 --> 00:35:29,180 about a number of things. 988 00:35:29,180 --> 00:35:32,779 People get sentimental about the past. 989 00:35:32,779 --> 00:35:35,998 You know what would make me sentimental - 990 00:35:35,998 --> 00:35:38,272 listening to oldies. 991 00:35:38,272 --> 00:35:40,634 Now, I know what oldies means for you. 992 00:35:40,634 --> 00:35:42,381 Does "oldies" mean different things 993 00:35:42,381 --> 00:35:43,749 for different people? 994 00:35:43,749 --> 00:35:45,904 Or is "oldies" - my oldies. 995 00:35:45,904 --> 00:35:48,528 My oldies are music from the 60's and the 70's. 996 00:35:48,528 --> 00:35:49,665 If you're a young guy, 997 00:35:49,665 --> 00:35:51,407 are your oldies the 90's? 998 00:35:51,407 --> 00:35:53,763 I don't know if that's a moving target or not, 999 00:35:53,763 --> 00:35:56,701 but all I know is when there's an oldies station, 1000 00:35:56,701 --> 00:36:00,113 they're playing my music from the 60's and 70's. 1001 00:36:00,113 --> 00:36:02,153 Now sometimes I need to listen to oldies. 1002 00:36:02,153 --> 00:36:03,357 When I was traveling back 1003 00:36:03,357 --> 00:36:05,240 from Jeremy's soccer games 1004 00:36:05,240 --> 00:36:07,856 at 1 or 2 in the morning, 1005 00:36:07,856 --> 00:36:11,410 driving home and the coffee wasn't doing it. 1006 00:36:11,410 --> 00:36:12,848 to keep myself alive, 1007 00:36:12,848 --> 00:36:14,662 I'd find myself an oldies station. 1008 00:36:14,662 --> 00:36:15,945 Man, it would perk me up 1009 00:36:15,945 --> 00:36:17,605 and I'd be able to drive for hours 1010 00:36:17,605 --> 00:36:19,287 listening to those oldies. 1011 00:36:19,287 --> 00:36:21,662 Because it had such a nostalgic effect - 1012 00:36:21,662 --> 00:36:23,152 a powerful effect upon me. 1013 00:36:23,152 --> 00:36:25,684 But otherwise, unless it's to keep me alive driving, 1014 00:36:25,684 --> 00:36:28,846 I shouldn't listen to those oldies. 1015 00:36:28,846 --> 00:36:31,148 Because it's a sentimental nostalgia. 1016 00:36:31,148 --> 00:36:32,624 You know what I think? 1017 00:36:32,624 --> 00:36:35,414 I think man, oh to be back in my teen years. 1018 00:36:35,414 --> 00:36:36,959 Oh, to be back in my twenties. 1019 00:36:36,959 --> 00:36:38,101 But here I am in my 60's 1020 00:36:38,101 --> 00:36:40,092 and life is passing me by... 1021 00:36:40,092 --> 00:36:41,479 that's not good. 1022 00:36:41,479 --> 00:36:43,804 I need to press on toward the mark forward - 1023 00:36:43,804 --> 00:36:45,320 not look back. 1024 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:46,584 That's not productive. 1025 00:36:46,584 --> 00:36:48,411 That's not edifying for me. 1026 00:36:48,411 --> 00:36:51,067 So the oldies have a sentimental effect 1027 00:36:51,067 --> 00:36:54,463 upon me which is not a good emotion. 1028 00:36:54,463 --> 00:36:56,766 So the past - music - 1029 00:36:56,766 --> 00:36:59,130 can be sentimental. 1030 00:36:59,130 --> 00:37:01,007 Sentiment is good. 1031 00:37:01,007 --> 00:37:03,250 Sentimentality is not good. 1032 00:37:03,250 --> 00:37:05,911 People get sentimental over paraphernalia. 1033 00:37:05,911 --> 00:37:07,880 Parents sentimental over their children's 1034 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:09,215 first baby shoes. 1035 00:37:09,215 --> 00:37:10,958 And they keep their childhood toy. 1036 00:37:10,958 --> 00:37:12,837 And this was the little stuffed animal 1037 00:37:12,837 --> 00:37:14,717 that he had when he was three. 1038 00:37:14,717 --> 00:37:18,442 You get sentimental over paraphernalia and things. 1039 00:37:18,442 --> 00:37:21,570 People get sentimental about pets. 1040 00:37:21,570 --> 00:37:24,327 Some people get so attached to pets 1041 00:37:24,327 --> 00:37:26,690 that you would think the pet is a child. 1042 00:37:26,690 --> 00:37:30,651 They get overly sentimental about a bird. 1043 00:37:30,651 --> 00:37:34,091 Dogs now? Dogs are man's best friend. 1044 00:37:34,091 --> 00:37:36,130 It's hard to lose a dog, isn't it? 1045 00:37:36,130 --> 00:37:38,231 God made dogs in a special way. 1046 00:37:38,231 --> 00:37:40,642 But still, you have to say at the end of the day, 1047 00:37:40,642 --> 00:37:42,295 it's an animal right? 1048 00:37:42,295 --> 00:37:44,094 It's an animal. 1049 00:37:44,094 --> 00:37:45,389 I'll tell you a story about 1050 00:37:45,389 --> 00:37:46,974 sentimentality and animals. 1051 00:37:46,974 --> 00:37:51,059 Years ago, my children were 7, 5, and 3. 1052 00:37:51,059 --> 00:37:52,269 Jeremy was 3. 1053 00:37:52,269 --> 00:37:54,393 I was running around the high school track - 1054 00:37:54,393 --> 00:37:55,852 Downingtown High School track, 1055 00:37:55,852 --> 00:37:57,919 and it was a cinder track at the time. 1056 00:37:57,919 --> 00:37:59,809 And I'm running and all of a sudden 1057 00:37:59,809 --> 00:38:02,103 I look down and there's a baby snapping turtle 1058 00:38:02,103 --> 00:38:03,293 in my path. 1059 00:38:03,293 --> 00:38:04,933 And I'm glad I didn't step on it. 1060 00:38:04,933 --> 00:38:06,532 Now I know that snapping turtles 1061 00:38:06,532 --> 00:38:07,837 lay their eggs on land, 1062 00:38:07,837 --> 00:38:09,327 but they live in the water, 1063 00:38:09,327 --> 00:38:11,060 and there was not a body of water 1064 00:38:11,060 --> 00:38:12,481 anywhere to be seen. 1065 00:38:12,481 --> 00:38:14,240 But anyway, I thought, I'm going to 1066 00:38:14,240 --> 00:38:16,165 take this little snapping turtle home 1067 00:38:16,165 --> 00:38:18,221 and give it to the kids as a pet. 1068 00:38:18,221 --> 00:38:19,318 And so we take it home 1069 00:38:19,318 --> 00:38:21,158 and I say, now kids you can keep this 1070 00:38:21,158 --> 00:38:22,210 for a couple of weeks 1071 00:38:22,210 --> 00:38:24,338 and then we're going to have to let it go. 1072 00:38:24,338 --> 00:38:25,536 We got a little terrarium 1073 00:38:25,536 --> 00:38:27,611 and they played with the snapping turtle. 1074 00:38:27,611 --> 00:38:29,323 And they named him Roger. 1075 00:38:29,323 --> 00:38:30,519 And then the time came 1076 00:38:30,519 --> 00:38:32,613 to let the snapping turtle go back 1077 00:38:32,613 --> 00:38:33,432 into the wild, 1078 00:38:33,432 --> 00:38:35,302 so we went down to the local duck pond, 1079 00:38:35,302 --> 00:38:38,177 and I was thinking, boy, how's this going to be for my kids? 1080 00:38:38,177 --> 00:38:39,862 Is this going to be hard for them 1081 00:38:39,862 --> 00:38:41,389 to let their pet Roger go? 1082 00:38:41,389 --> 00:38:42,770 We no sooner got to the bank 1083 00:38:42,770 --> 00:38:44,642 when my son Chuck reached into bucket 1084 00:38:44,642 --> 00:38:46,691 and throws him as far as his 5 year old 1085 00:38:46,691 --> 00:38:47,917 arm can throw. 1086 00:38:47,917 --> 00:38:50,057 "Bye, Roger!" 1087 00:38:50,057 --> 00:38:51,449 And that was it. 1088 00:38:51,449 --> 00:38:53,512 Alright, that was easy. 1089 00:38:53,512 --> 00:38:56,853 "Bye, Roger!" Roger's gone. 1090 00:38:56,853 --> 00:39:01,393 And I thought, so much for sentimentality. 1091 00:39:01,393 --> 00:39:02,557 Another story though, 1092 00:39:02,557 --> 00:39:04,095 about my son Jeremy. 1093 00:39:04,095 --> 00:39:05,769 And you'll appreciate this 1094 00:39:05,769 --> 00:39:07,924 if you're under his pastoral care. 1095 00:39:07,924 --> 00:39:10,052 When my daughter was about that same age, 1096 00:39:10,052 --> 00:39:11,877 we had gotten her a parakeet, 1097 00:39:11,877 --> 00:39:13,549 and sometimes the kids would 1098 00:39:13,549 --> 00:39:14,933 let the parakeet fly around 1099 00:39:14,933 --> 00:39:16,156 and get some exercise. 1100 00:39:16,156 --> 00:39:17,816 And it was Christmas-time, 1101 00:39:17,816 --> 00:39:19,495 and the kids had the parakeet out, 1102 00:39:19,495 --> 00:39:20,761 and we had some visitors, 1103 00:39:20,761 --> 00:39:22,332 and when they came in the door, 1104 00:39:22,332 --> 00:39:23,925 the parakeet flew out the door. 1105 00:39:23,925 --> 00:39:25,104 It was about 32 degrees. 1106 00:39:25,104 --> 00:39:26,754 So we go out, we bring the cage, 1107 00:39:26,754 --> 00:39:28,468 we try to coax the parakeet back. 1108 00:39:28,468 --> 00:39:30,666 No do. The parakeet's gone. 1109 00:39:30,666 --> 00:39:33,369 So we come back in and my daughter's sad. 1110 00:39:33,369 --> 00:39:35,093 And Jeremy comforts her. 1111 00:39:35,093 --> 00:39:37,563 "Valerie, I'm going to get you a bird 1112 00:39:37,563 --> 00:39:41,207 with no wings that can't fly." 1113 00:39:41,207 --> 00:39:43,022 So you see, from the very beginning, 1114 00:39:43,022 --> 00:39:49,536 he was a sensitive guy. 1115 00:39:49,536 --> 00:39:52,448 But brothers, Jesus was not sentimental. 1116 00:39:52,448 --> 00:39:54,418 Again, let me give you a few instances. 1117 00:39:54,418 --> 00:39:55,991 Rather than take the time to turn 1118 00:39:55,991 --> 00:39:56,864 to the passage, 1119 00:39:56,864 --> 00:39:57,830 I'll reference it. 1120 00:39:57,830 --> 00:39:58,735 You can look it up. 1121 00:39:58,735 --> 00:40:01,505 In Mark 3, Jesus is teaching 1122 00:40:01,505 --> 00:40:03,185 a multitude of people. 1123 00:40:03,185 --> 00:40:04,969 His family - not believing in Him - 1124 00:40:04,969 --> 00:40:06,172 come looking for Him. 1125 00:40:06,172 --> 00:40:08,141 They think He's working too hard. 1126 00:40:08,141 --> 00:40:09,859 You know, we need to relieve Him. 1127 00:40:09,859 --> 00:40:10,851 And they come. 1128 00:40:10,851 --> 00:40:12,218 And it's reported to Jesus, 1129 00:40:12,218 --> 00:40:14,718 Your mother and brothers are here. 1130 00:40:14,718 --> 00:40:15,685 What does Jesus do? 1131 00:40:15,685 --> 00:40:16,533 Oh, pardon Me, 1132 00:40:16,533 --> 00:40:18,148 My mother and brothers are here. 1133 00:40:18,148 --> 00:40:19,735 No. You know what He says? 1134 00:40:19,735 --> 00:40:20,534 You remember. 1135 00:40:20,534 --> 00:40:23,042 Who is My mother and My brother 1136 00:40:23,042 --> 00:40:24,033 and My sisters? 1137 00:40:24,033 --> 00:40:26,497 He who does the will of God. 1138 00:40:26,497 --> 00:40:29,814 Now, it's not that He didn't love His family, 1139 00:40:29,814 --> 00:40:32,353 but there was not a sentimental attachment 1140 00:40:32,353 --> 00:40:34,771 to His family that overrode His duty 1141 00:40:34,771 --> 00:40:37,123 to teach the people of God. 1142 00:40:37,123 --> 00:40:40,809 When Peter, after giving the great confession: 1143 00:40:40,809 --> 00:40:43,175 You are the Christ, the Son of the living God, 1144 00:40:43,175 --> 00:40:44,763 and being affirmed by Jesus: 1145 00:40:44,763 --> 00:40:46,343 Blessed are you, Simon. 1146 00:40:46,343 --> 00:40:47,389 A few minutes later, 1147 00:40:47,389 --> 00:40:49,489 Jesus is saying I need to go to Jerusalem, 1148 00:40:49,489 --> 00:40:52,046 suffer under the chief priests and elders and die. 1149 00:40:52,046 --> 00:40:54,187 And Peter said, "God forbid, Lord!" 1150 00:40:54,187 --> 00:40:55,340 And what did Jesus say? 1151 00:40:55,340 --> 00:40:56,849 Now Jesus loved Peter. 1152 00:40:56,849 --> 00:41:00,851 Jesus knew that Peter was well-intentioned. 1153 00:41:00,851 --> 00:41:02,384 But without any sentimentality, 1154 00:41:02,384 --> 00:41:04,771 He said, "Get behind me, Satan!" 1155 00:41:04,771 --> 00:41:06,465 I love you Peter, but that thought 1156 00:41:06,465 --> 00:41:07,844 is a devilish thought. 1157 00:41:07,844 --> 00:41:09,393 I've got to go to the cross. 1158 00:41:09,393 --> 00:41:14,173 And so, Jesus was not sentimental. 1159 00:41:14,173 --> 00:41:16,187 In Luke 9, a would-be follower, 1160 00:41:16,187 --> 00:41:18,644 in v. 59-60, I think it's on your handout, 1161 00:41:18,644 --> 00:41:20,221 a follower comes to Jesus, 1162 00:41:20,221 --> 00:41:21,639 Jesus, I want to follow You, 1163 00:41:21,639 --> 00:41:24,355 but let me first bury my father. 1164 00:41:24,355 --> 00:41:27,152 Let the dead bury the dead. 1165 00:41:27,152 --> 00:41:31,139 Come, follow Me. 1166 00:41:31,139 --> 00:41:33,374 Jesus does not allow sentimental attachment 1167 00:41:33,374 --> 00:41:35,760 to family interfere with the urgency 1168 00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:37,092 of following Him 1169 00:41:37,092 --> 00:41:40,266 and making the spiritual life the priority. 1170 00:41:40,266 --> 00:41:42,248 And remember how He says in Matthew 10, 1171 00:41:42,248 --> 00:41:43,768 He who loves father or mother, 1172 00:41:43,768 --> 00:41:44,630 son or daughter, 1173 00:41:44,630 --> 00:41:47,044 more than Me is not worthy of Me. 1174 00:41:47,044 --> 00:41:50,903 So Jesus was not sentimental. 1175 00:41:50,903 --> 00:41:54,838 Let me make some applications of this, brothers. 1176 00:41:54,838 --> 00:41:56,248 In His emotional life, 1177 00:41:56,248 --> 00:41:58,774 He was not given to sentimentality. 1178 00:41:58,774 --> 00:42:00,371 I say first of all, if you are 1179 00:42:00,371 --> 00:42:04,882 especially a deeply emotional person, 1180 00:42:04,882 --> 00:42:07,688 beware of sentimentality. 1181 00:42:07,688 --> 00:42:09,107 It is false emotion. 1182 00:42:09,107 --> 00:42:10,736 It is unprincipled emotion. 1183 00:42:10,736 --> 00:42:13,976 Make sure that what you feel 1184 00:42:13,976 --> 00:42:18,006 fits with the reality of the situation. 1185 00:42:18,006 --> 00:42:20,675 Secondly, be alert to sentimentality 1186 00:42:20,675 --> 00:42:22,544 as it is used in churches 1187 00:42:22,544 --> 00:42:25,187 to manipulate decisions for Jesus. 1188 00:42:25,187 --> 00:42:26,601 You're aware that there are 1189 00:42:26,601 --> 00:42:28,850 countless people in countless churches 1190 00:42:28,850 --> 00:42:30,602 who think they're Christians because 1191 00:42:30,602 --> 00:42:33,078 they were manipulated emotionally 1192 00:42:33,078 --> 00:42:34,868 by tear-jerking music 1193 00:42:34,868 --> 00:42:39,245 and appeals that run around the mind 1194 00:42:39,245 --> 00:42:40,716 and appeal to their emotions 1195 00:42:40,716 --> 00:42:42,173 and tug on their emotions, 1196 00:42:42,173 --> 00:42:43,879 and they make an emotional decision 1197 00:42:43,879 --> 00:42:44,826 for Jesus, 1198 00:42:44,826 --> 00:42:46,099 and they're not converted. 1199 00:42:46,099 --> 00:42:48,035 They've not come to terms with their sin 1200 00:42:48,035 --> 00:42:49,285 and alienation from God. 1201 00:42:49,285 --> 00:42:50,355 They've not repented. 1202 00:42:50,355 --> 00:42:51,891 But they're told they're in the kingdom 1203 00:42:51,891 --> 00:42:53,622 because they made a decision for Jesus 1204 00:42:53,622 --> 00:42:54,963 and they were just moved 1205 00:42:54,963 --> 00:42:57,110 by a manipulative, emotional, 1206 00:42:57,110 --> 00:42:59,062 sentimental appeal. 1207 00:42:59,062 --> 00:43:00,081 Beware of that. 1208 00:43:00,081 --> 00:43:01,625 Certainly, don't practice that 1209 00:43:01,625 --> 00:43:03,104 in your churches. 1210 00:43:03,104 --> 00:43:05,548 You do a great disservice to sinners. 1211 00:43:05,548 --> 00:43:10,602 And then, in light of Jesus's unsentimental rebuke 1212 00:43:10,602 --> 00:43:11,953 to Peter... 1213 00:43:11,953 --> 00:43:14,023 I was talking to a brother just today 1214 00:43:14,023 --> 00:43:16,810 and I added this application. 1215 00:43:16,810 --> 00:43:18,753 If you think, well, I know 1216 00:43:18,753 --> 00:43:20,319 this person needs the Gospel, 1217 00:43:20,319 --> 00:43:22,552 but it's going to be offensive to them, 1218 00:43:22,552 --> 00:43:24,676 and it's going to hurt them. 1219 00:43:24,676 --> 00:43:26,564 Don't for sentimental reasons 1220 00:43:26,564 --> 00:43:29,900 withhold the hard truth that they need to hear 1221 00:43:29,900 --> 00:43:33,803 even if they turn on you upon hearing it. 1222 00:43:33,803 --> 00:43:35,485 Sometimes, we have a brother, 1223 00:43:35,485 --> 00:43:38,522 a sister that needs to be corrected. 1224 00:43:38,522 --> 00:43:40,166 And we think, well, I don't want 1225 00:43:40,166 --> 00:43:41,478 to hurt their feelings. 1226 00:43:41,478 --> 00:43:42,730 Well, wait a minute, 1227 00:43:42,730 --> 00:43:45,001 if they're sinning, they're hurting themselves. 1228 00:43:45,001 --> 00:43:47,330 They're hurting others. They're hurting the cause of Christ. 1229 00:43:47,330 --> 00:43:48,891 Now, you go graciously. 1230 00:43:48,891 --> 00:43:49,952 You go humbly. 1231 00:43:49,952 --> 00:43:50,895 You go gently. 1232 00:43:50,895 --> 00:43:52,166 But go! 1233 00:43:52,166 --> 00:43:53,952 And speak that word to them. 1234 00:43:53,952 --> 00:43:55,997 And don't not go for the sake of 1235 00:43:55,997 --> 00:43:59,112 maudlin sentimentality. 1236 00:43:59,112 --> 00:44:02,516 And then beware of being a manipulator 1237 00:44:02,516 --> 00:44:05,022 if you are a fast-talking, smooth 1238 00:44:05,022 --> 00:44:06,574 kind of person, 1239 00:44:06,574 --> 00:44:10,108 beware of using sentimentality 1240 00:44:10,108 --> 00:44:13,538 to manipulate the emotions of others 1241 00:44:13,538 --> 00:44:17,039 and prey upon them to get what you want. 1242 00:44:17,039 --> 00:44:19,774 Brothers, next, let's consider 1243 00:44:19,774 --> 00:44:22,334 the variety of Jesus' emotional life. 1244 00:44:22,334 --> 00:44:24,682 I don't have time in these messages 1245 00:44:24,682 --> 00:44:26,773 to cover all of the emotions of Jesus. 1246 00:44:26,773 --> 00:44:28,699 We're only going to key in on four. 1247 00:44:28,699 --> 00:44:30,452 But I want to give you a spectrum 1248 00:44:30,452 --> 00:44:31,766 of the emotions of Jesus. 1249 00:44:31,766 --> 00:44:33,537 One of the things that I enjoy doing 1250 00:44:33,537 --> 00:44:34,634 in preparation for this 1251 00:44:34,634 --> 00:44:36,408 is just going through the Gospels, 1252 00:44:36,408 --> 00:44:38,999 looking for the emotions of Jesus, 1253 00:44:38,999 --> 00:44:41,026 and taking pages and pages of notes 1254 00:44:41,026 --> 00:44:42,714 where I saw the emotions of Jesus. 1255 00:44:42,714 --> 00:44:44,794 And I invite you, 1256 00:44:44,794 --> 00:44:46,235 if I don't cover an emotion 1257 00:44:46,235 --> 00:44:47,233 that you're aware of, 1258 00:44:47,233 --> 00:44:48,263 would you tell me? 1259 00:44:48,263 --> 00:44:49,856 I would love to expand this list. 1260 00:44:49,856 --> 00:44:51,437 No doubt I have missed some. 1261 00:44:51,437 --> 00:44:54,140 So I'm open to add to this list. 1262 00:44:54,140 --> 00:44:56,665 But let me just run through a spectrum 1263 00:44:56,665 --> 00:44:58,371 of the emotions of Jesus 1264 00:44:58,371 --> 00:45:00,398 as I found them in the Gospels. 1265 00:45:00,398 --> 00:45:02,168 The compassion of Jesus - 1266 00:45:02,168 --> 00:45:04,546 we're going to focus on that tonight. 1267 00:45:04,546 --> 00:45:06,914 When He went ashore, He saw large crowds 1268 00:45:06,914 --> 00:45:08,366 and felt compassion for them 1269 00:45:08,366 --> 00:45:10,777 and healed their sick. 1270 00:45:10,777 --> 00:45:13,382 The amazement of Jesus. 1271 00:45:13,382 --> 00:45:15,449 Are you aware that there were two occasions 1272 00:45:15,449 --> 00:45:17,227 when Jesus was amazed? 1273 00:45:17,227 --> 00:45:19,114 Now that's amazing to me, 1274 00:45:19,114 --> 00:45:21,680 because He's the One that amazes us. 1275 00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:25,047 But on two occasions, Jesus was amazed. 1276 00:45:25,047 --> 00:45:27,106 He was amazed at the great faith 1277 00:45:27,106 --> 00:45:29,103 of the Centurion. 1278 00:45:29,103 --> 00:45:30,615 It says He was amazed. 1279 00:45:30,615 --> 00:45:32,513 Never have I seen such faith in Israel. 1280 00:45:32,513 --> 00:45:34,911 And He was amazed - wondered - 1281 00:45:34,911 --> 00:45:38,466 at the great unbelief in Nazareth. 1282 00:45:38,466 --> 00:45:40,756 That's intriguing to me. 1283 00:45:40,756 --> 00:45:43,804 The One at Whom we marvel, 1284 00:45:43,804 --> 00:45:47,273 actually marveled at great faith 1285 00:45:47,273 --> 00:45:48,266 and great unbelief. 1286 00:45:48,266 --> 00:45:49,513 The amazement of Jesus. 1287 00:45:49,513 --> 00:45:51,325 The wariness, the suspicion, 1288 00:45:51,325 --> 00:45:53,373 the skepticism of Jesus. 1289 00:45:53,373 --> 00:45:55,041 Jesus was not gullible. 1290 00:45:55,041 --> 00:45:56,890 In John 2, it says He wasn't 1291 00:45:56,890 --> 00:45:58,617 entrusting Himself to them 1292 00:45:58,617 --> 00:46:00,967 because He knew what was in men. 1293 00:46:00,967 --> 00:46:04,514 He had emotions of skepticism about them. 1294 00:46:04,514 --> 00:46:06,612 He didn't just entrust Himself to everybody, 1295 00:46:06,612 --> 00:46:09,493 and neither should we. 1296 00:46:09,493 --> 00:46:10,937 The serenity of Jesus. 1297 00:46:10,937 --> 00:46:13,452 The storm whips up on the Sea of Galilee, 1298 00:46:13,452 --> 00:46:15,031 and He's sleeping peacefully 1299 00:46:15,031 --> 00:46:17,620 like a baby in the back of the boat. 1300 00:46:17,620 --> 00:46:19,580 The sensitivity of Jesus. 1301 00:46:19,580 --> 00:46:21,492 Let me park here for a minute, 1302 00:46:21,492 --> 00:46:23,039 because this impacted me. 1303 00:46:23,039 --> 00:46:26,328 How sensitive Jesus Christ was. 1304 00:46:26,328 --> 00:46:29,486 He was sensitive to the emotions of other people. 1305 00:46:29,486 --> 00:46:32,874 Over and over, I read how sensitive He was 1306 00:46:32,874 --> 00:46:34,512 to human fears. 1307 00:46:34,512 --> 00:46:35,916 To Jairus He says, 1308 00:46:35,916 --> 00:46:37,899 "Do not be afraid any longer." 1309 00:46:37,899 --> 00:46:39,376 When the men are trembling 1310 00:46:39,376 --> 00:46:41,023 on the Mount of Transfiguration, 1311 00:46:41,023 --> 00:46:43,230 He says, "Do not be afraid." 1312 00:46:43,230 --> 00:46:45,559 When He's walking to them on the water 1313 00:46:45,559 --> 00:46:46,780 and they're in the boat 1314 00:46:46,780 --> 00:46:48,206 and they think it's a ghost, 1315 00:46:48,206 --> 00:46:49,647 "Don't be afraid." 1316 00:46:49,647 --> 00:46:53,155 I see the perpetual sensitivity of Jesus 1317 00:46:53,155 --> 00:46:55,010 to allay human fears. 1318 00:46:55,010 --> 00:46:56,351 Don't be afraid. 1319 00:46:56,351 --> 00:46:57,871 I'm not here to frighten you. 1320 00:46:57,871 --> 00:46:59,270 I'm not here to alarm you. 1321 00:46:59,270 --> 00:47:01,899 Beautiful display of the sensitivity of Jesus. 1322 00:47:01,899 --> 00:47:06,138 He was sensitive to practical needs. 1323 00:47:06,138 --> 00:47:08,431 James Stalker talks about how 1324 00:47:08,431 --> 00:47:12,979 when Jesus raised the daughter of Jairus, 1325 00:47:12,979 --> 00:47:15,015 He took her by the hand, 1326 00:47:15,015 --> 00:47:16,324 so that when she awoke, 1327 00:47:16,324 --> 00:47:18,149 she would have some human contact, 1328 00:47:18,149 --> 00:47:19,416 and then of all things, 1329 00:47:19,416 --> 00:47:22,544 He says, "give her something to eat." 1330 00:47:22,544 --> 00:47:23,800 She's been dead, you know. 1331 00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:25,176 She hasn't eaten in awhile. 1332 00:47:25,176 --> 00:47:26,919 But who would have thought of that? 1333 00:47:26,919 --> 00:47:29,097 Jesus is sensitive to this very practical need. 1334 00:47:29,097 --> 00:47:30,668 She's going to need something to eat now, 1335 00:47:30,668 --> 00:47:32,354 now that she's alive from the dead. 1336 00:47:32,354 --> 00:47:33,604 Give her some food. 1337 00:47:33,604 --> 00:47:36,154 Sensitivity of Jesus. 1338 00:47:36,154 --> 00:47:39,738 Sensitive to His disciples' need for rest. 1339 00:47:39,738 --> 00:47:41,050 You've been working hard. 1340 00:47:41,050 --> 00:47:43,190 Come apart and rest for awhile. 1341 00:47:43,190 --> 00:47:46,587 His sensitivity to social propriety. 1342 00:47:46,587 --> 00:47:48,174 He comes into the home 1343 00:47:48,174 --> 00:47:49,433 of the Pharisee Simon, 1344 00:47:49,433 --> 00:47:50,982 who's grumbling about the woman 1345 00:47:50,982 --> 00:47:53,274 who wets His feet with her tears, 1346 00:47:53,274 --> 00:47:54,818 and He says, "Simon, you gave Me 1347 00:47:54,818 --> 00:47:56,862 no water for My feet. 1348 00:47:56,862 --> 00:47:58,135 You didn't give Me a kiss. 1349 00:47:58,135 --> 00:48:00,274 You didn't anoint My head." 1350 00:48:00,274 --> 00:48:03,570 He was sensitive to the social amenities 1351 00:48:03,570 --> 00:48:05,809 of His day. 1352 00:48:05,809 --> 00:48:09,002 Jesus was sensitive to His peoples' suffering. 1353 00:48:09,002 --> 00:48:10,458 How much time does He take 1354 00:48:10,458 --> 00:48:11,834 in the Sermon on the Mount 1355 00:48:11,834 --> 00:48:14,183 to prep them for what's coming down. 1356 00:48:14,183 --> 00:48:15,911 I'm going away. You're going to suffer, 1357 00:48:15,911 --> 00:48:17,626 but in this world, you're going to have tribulation, 1358 00:48:17,626 --> 00:48:19,196 but cheer up - I've overcome the world. 1359 00:48:19,196 --> 00:48:21,028 He takes chapters in our Bibles 1360 00:48:21,028 --> 00:48:24,609 to comfort them about the upcoming suffering 1361 00:48:24,609 --> 00:48:26,257 because He is sensitive. 1362 00:48:26,257 --> 00:48:30,724 The sensitivity of Jesus Christ. 1363 00:48:30,724 --> 00:48:33,017 The exasperation of Jesus. 1364 00:48:33,017 --> 00:48:34,472 Have you been so long with Me? 1365 00:48:34,472 --> 00:48:36,125 We'll study that in more detail. 1366 00:48:36,125 --> 00:48:37,816 He got exasperated. 1367 00:48:37,816 --> 00:48:39,923 The fearlessness of Jesus. 1368 00:48:39,923 --> 00:48:41,163 In Mark 3, there's a man 1369 00:48:41,163 --> 00:48:42,370 with a withered hand. 1370 00:48:42,370 --> 00:48:43,844 He knows that if He heals him, 1371 00:48:43,844 --> 00:48:46,105 His enemies are going to plot to destroy Him. 1372 00:48:46,105 --> 00:48:48,846 And He says stretch forth your hand. 1373 00:48:48,846 --> 00:48:50,291 And He makes it whole. 1374 00:48:50,291 --> 00:48:51,234 Fearlessness. 1375 00:48:51,234 --> 00:48:52,919 Knowing His enemies would go out, 1376 00:48:52,919 --> 00:48:54,800 as they did, to plot to destroy Him. 1377 00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:56,742 He healed the man. 1378 00:48:56,742 --> 00:48:58,252 The anger of Jesus: 1379 00:48:58,252 --> 00:48:59,527 with sin, with death, 1380 00:48:59,527 --> 00:49:00,530 with His enemies. 1381 00:49:00,530 --> 00:49:01,350 The joy of Jesus. 1382 00:49:01,350 --> 00:49:02,924 We're going to end, God-willing, 1383 00:49:02,924 --> 00:49:03,996 with that tomorrow. 1384 00:49:03,996 --> 00:49:06,067 I want you to see, as I've seen more fully 1385 00:49:06,067 --> 00:49:08,146 the joy of Jesus. 1386 00:49:08,146 --> 00:49:09,287 The zeal of Jesus. 1387 00:49:09,287 --> 00:49:10,483 He cleanses the temple. 1388 00:49:10,483 --> 00:49:12,959 Zeal for His Father's house consumed Him. 1389 00:49:12,959 --> 00:49:15,723 The grief and sorrow of Jesus. 1390 00:49:15,723 --> 00:49:17,916 The fear of Jesus in the garden. 1391 00:49:17,916 --> 00:49:19,563 Father, if it be possible, 1392 00:49:19,563 --> 00:49:20,857 let this cup pass from Me. 1393 00:49:20,857 --> 00:49:22,570 The loneliness of Jesus. 1394 00:49:22,570 --> 00:49:23,975 Could you watch with Me 1395 00:49:23,975 --> 00:49:25,689 for even an hour? 1396 00:49:25,689 --> 00:49:27,889 I'm human. I need friends. 1397 00:49:27,889 --> 00:49:29,256 This is My hour of trial. 1398 00:49:29,256 --> 00:49:30,453 You guys are sleeping! 1399 00:49:30,453 --> 00:49:32,734 Couldn't you watch with Me for an hour? 1400 00:49:32,734 --> 00:49:34,868 He felt loneliness. 1401 00:49:34,868 --> 00:49:36,421 The alarm of Jesus. 1402 00:49:36,421 --> 00:49:39,853 Beware! Watch out! 1403 00:49:39,853 --> 00:49:41,993 One more, the love of Jesus. 1404 00:49:41,993 --> 00:49:43,400 And by the love of Jesus, 1405 00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:46,395 I don't mean the electing love of Jesus. 1406 00:49:46,395 --> 00:49:48,371 I mean the human love of Jesus. 1407 00:49:48,371 --> 00:49:49,915 Let me open this up. 1408 00:49:49,915 --> 00:49:51,857 There were three individuals or groups 1409 00:49:51,857 --> 00:49:53,587 that it says Jesus loved, 1410 00:49:53,587 --> 00:49:55,602 and it's not talking about His eternal, 1411 00:49:55,602 --> 00:49:56,770 electing love, 1412 00:49:56,770 --> 00:49:58,342 but His human affection. 1413 00:49:58,342 --> 00:49:59,328 Who were they? 1414 00:49:59,328 --> 00:50:00,592 Give me one. 1415 00:50:00,592 --> 00:50:02,008 The rich, young ruler. 1416 00:50:02,008 --> 00:50:03,889 The man went away sorrowful. 1417 00:50:03,889 --> 00:50:06,834 And it says Jesus felt love for him. 1418 00:50:06,834 --> 00:50:08,063 He let him go. 1419 00:50:08,063 --> 00:50:09,421 He didn't give him plan B. 1420 00:50:09,421 --> 00:50:10,930 He didn't compromise the terms. 1421 00:50:10,930 --> 00:50:12,427 But He felt a love for him. 1422 00:50:12,427 --> 00:50:13,481 Who else? 1423 00:50:13,481 --> 00:50:16,798 Lazarus. He whom You love is sick. 1424 00:50:16,798 --> 00:50:18,894 Jesus loved Lazarus, Martha, and Mary. 1425 00:50:18,894 --> 00:50:21,165 Not talking about His electing love as God. 1426 00:50:21,165 --> 00:50:23,305 It's talking about His human affection. 1427 00:50:23,305 --> 00:50:24,150 And who else? 1428 00:50:24,150 --> 00:50:25,795 John - five times. 1429 00:50:25,795 --> 00:50:28,155 John says "the disciple whom Jesus loved." 1430 00:50:28,155 --> 00:50:29,275 Isn't that intriguing? 1431 00:50:29,275 --> 00:50:30,149 He loved them all, 1432 00:50:30,149 --> 00:50:32,538 but there was a special bond of affection 1433 00:50:32,538 --> 00:50:34,956 for John. 1434 00:50:34,956 --> 00:50:37,186 Brothers, now, final thing. 1435 00:50:37,186 --> 00:50:39,397 The key to Jesus' emotional life. 1436 00:50:39,397 --> 00:50:41,785 I hope you see something of the beauty 1437 00:50:41,785 --> 00:50:43,986 of the emotional life of our Lord. 1438 00:50:43,986 --> 00:50:45,750 It is so expansive. 1439 00:50:45,750 --> 00:50:48,367 It is expressive. 1440 00:50:48,367 --> 00:50:50,969 But how do we attain 1441 00:50:50,969 --> 00:50:55,580 to that kind of emotional life? 1442 00:50:55,580 --> 00:50:57,722 The key to Jesus' emotional life 1443 00:50:57,722 --> 00:50:59,663 is communion with His Father 1444 00:50:59,663 --> 00:51:02,956 in His Word and prayer. 1445 00:51:02,956 --> 00:51:05,690 There's no easy formula, brothers. 1446 00:51:05,690 --> 00:51:09,311 Jesus had the emotional life He had 1447 00:51:09,311 --> 00:51:12,302 because of His communion with His Father 1448 00:51:12,302 --> 00:51:14,958 in Word and prayer. 1449 00:51:14,958 --> 00:51:18,651 Jesus was committed to the Father's Word. 1450 00:51:18,651 --> 00:51:21,491 Emotions are never intended to lead. 1451 00:51:21,491 --> 00:51:23,188 They're always intended to follow 1452 00:51:23,188 --> 00:51:24,272 our rational thinking, 1453 00:51:24,272 --> 00:51:26,218 and our thinking is always to be subject 1454 00:51:26,218 --> 00:51:27,320 to the Word of God. 1455 00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,157 We're to take every thought captive 1456 00:51:29,157 --> 00:51:31,023 to the Word of God. 1457 00:51:31,023 --> 00:51:33,820 And Jesus did that with His Father's Word. 1458 00:51:33,820 --> 00:51:36,376 John 5:30, "I do not seek My own will, 1459 00:51:36,376 --> 00:51:37,987 but the will of Him Who sent Me." 1460 00:51:37,987 --> 00:51:40,288 John 7:16, "My teaching is not Mine, 1461 00:51:40,288 --> 00:51:42,234 but His Who sent Me." 1462 00:51:42,234 --> 00:51:44,223 Matthew 4:4, "Man shall not live 1463 00:51:44,223 --> 00:51:45,052 by bread alone, 1464 00:51:45,052 --> 00:51:46,546 but by every word that proceeds 1465 00:51:46,546 --> 00:51:47,763 out of the mouth of God." 1466 00:51:47,763 --> 00:51:48,976 Jesus did that perfectly. 1467 00:51:48,976 --> 00:51:50,321 He lived by every word 1468 00:51:50,321 --> 00:51:52,662 out of the mouth of His Father. 1469 00:51:52,662 --> 00:51:54,730 And how would Jesus' commitment 1470 00:51:54,730 --> 00:51:57,724 to His Father to live by His Father's Word 1471 00:51:57,724 --> 00:52:01,492 affect and govern His emotional life? 1472 00:52:01,492 --> 00:52:02,305 I would say this, 1473 00:52:02,305 --> 00:52:04,081 His emotions were under the influence 1474 00:52:04,081 --> 00:52:07,298 and control of His Father's revealed purposes 1475 00:52:07,298 --> 00:52:09,599 and promises and provisions. 1476 00:52:09,599 --> 00:52:11,290 For example, we're going to see 1477 00:52:11,290 --> 00:52:13,969 that His holy joy was based on 1478 00:52:13,969 --> 00:52:16,485 His Father's purpose. 1479 00:52:16,485 --> 00:52:18,477 He says I praise You Father, 1480 00:52:18,477 --> 00:52:19,723 Lord of Heaven and earth, 1481 00:52:19,723 --> 00:52:22,512 that You've hidden these things from the wise and prudent 1482 00:52:22,512 --> 00:52:23,984 and revealed them unto babes. 1483 00:52:23,984 --> 00:52:25,306 His joy was based on 1484 00:52:25,306 --> 00:52:27,853 His commitment to His Father's purpose 1485 00:52:27,853 --> 00:52:29,625 to reveal Himself to those 1486 00:52:29,625 --> 00:52:32,062 who were dependent babes. 1487 00:52:32,062 --> 00:52:34,090 His holy anger 1488 00:52:34,090 --> 00:52:35,495 was born of the fact that 1489 00:52:35,495 --> 00:52:38,079 He was jealous for His Father's purpose. 1490 00:52:38,079 --> 00:52:39,594 The Father had made that temple 1491 00:52:39,594 --> 00:52:40,958 a place of prayer, 1492 00:52:40,958 --> 00:52:42,486 and they were perverting it. 1493 00:52:42,486 --> 00:52:44,209 And because they were perverting 1494 00:52:44,209 --> 00:52:45,631 the Father's purpose, 1495 00:52:45,631 --> 00:52:50,981 it evoked anger from Jesus. 1496 00:52:50,981 --> 00:52:53,699 His holy submission in the garden 1497 00:52:53,699 --> 00:52:57,435 was based on His trust 1498 00:52:57,435 --> 00:53:00,642 in the Father's promise and provision. 1499 00:53:00,642 --> 00:53:02,530 He will see the travail of His soul 1500 00:53:02,530 --> 00:53:03,551 and be satisfied. 1501 00:53:03,551 --> 00:53:05,261 Though it was agonizing to Him, 1502 00:53:05,261 --> 00:53:06,445 what made Him say, 1503 00:53:06,445 --> 00:53:09,433 Father, not My will but Yours be done - 1504 00:53:09,433 --> 00:53:11,658 because He trusted the Father's promise 1505 00:53:11,658 --> 00:53:13,953 that He would have a seed as a result 1506 00:53:13,953 --> 00:53:16,244 of His work. 1507 00:53:16,244 --> 00:53:18,833 In short, Jesus' emotional life 1508 00:53:18,833 --> 00:53:21,081 was grounded in His knowledge of 1509 00:53:21,081 --> 00:53:25,048 and obedience to His Father's Word. 1510 00:53:25,048 --> 00:53:26,778 And so it must be with us, brothers. 1511 00:53:26,778 --> 00:53:28,778 If we're going to be further sanctified 1512 00:53:28,778 --> 00:53:30,359 in our emotional life, 1513 00:53:30,359 --> 00:53:31,711 there's no shortcut. 1514 00:53:31,711 --> 00:53:32,923 We need to drink deeply 1515 00:53:32,923 --> 00:53:34,333 of the Word of God. 1516 00:53:34,333 --> 00:53:35,936 We need to imbibe the plans, 1517 00:53:35,936 --> 00:53:38,990 the purposes, the precepts, the promises of God. 1518 00:53:38,990 --> 00:53:41,125 And we need to obey them 1519 00:53:41,125 --> 00:53:44,599 and our emotions will fall into line with them. 1520 00:53:44,599 --> 00:53:46,471 Listen to a lengthy quote 1521 00:53:46,471 --> 00:53:49,119 from Pastor Allen Dunn. 1522 00:53:49,119 --> 00:53:51,681 He says, "We are to relate to God as our Father 1523 00:53:51,681 --> 00:53:55,479 and by faith, regulate our emotional reactions to life, 1524 00:53:55,479 --> 00:53:57,752 not according to our situation 1525 00:53:57,752 --> 00:53:59,981 or the dictates of other people, 1526 00:53:59,981 --> 00:54:02,784 but according to our Father's Word. 1527 00:54:02,784 --> 00:54:04,702 His words which abide forever 1528 00:54:04,702 --> 00:54:06,177 must regulate our emotions. 1529 00:54:06,177 --> 00:54:08,714 Not the things which are passing away. 1530 00:54:08,714 --> 00:54:10,872 When we are emotionally disobedient 1531 00:54:10,872 --> 00:54:12,403 it is because our hearts are 1532 00:54:12,403 --> 00:54:14,210 not fastened to the Word. 1533 00:54:14,210 --> 00:54:15,775 We allow fleeting feelings 1534 00:54:15,775 --> 00:54:17,130 or passing pressures - 1535 00:54:17,130 --> 00:54:18,279 something other than God 1536 00:54:18,279 --> 00:54:19,781 to define who we are. 1537 00:54:19,781 --> 00:54:21,195 We doubt His promises. 1538 00:54:21,195 --> 00:54:22,588 We get our eyes off of Christ 1539 00:54:22,588 --> 00:54:24,138 and stare fearfully at the water 1540 00:54:24,138 --> 00:54:25,134 and begin to sink, 1541 00:54:25,134 --> 00:54:26,317 and wave after wave 1542 00:54:26,317 --> 00:54:27,768 of emotional turmoil - 1543 00:54:27,768 --> 00:54:29,443 up, down, bobbing around - 1544 00:54:29,443 --> 00:54:31,034 not steadfast of mind, 1545 00:54:31,034 --> 00:54:31,940 but blown about, 1546 00:54:31,940 --> 00:54:33,045 impulsive, 1547 00:54:33,045 --> 00:54:35,196 seeking to gratify the emotional demand 1548 00:54:35,196 --> 00:54:36,911 to worry, pout, blow up in anger, 1549 00:54:36,911 --> 00:54:38,765 be silly and self-indulgent, 1550 00:54:38,765 --> 00:54:40,861 rather than seeking to please God 1551 00:54:40,861 --> 00:54:42,584 and satisfy the Scriptural demand 1552 00:54:42,584 --> 00:54:44,167 to trust God. 1553 00:54:44,167 --> 00:54:46,689 If you are emotionally disfigured, 1554 00:54:46,689 --> 00:54:48,422 temperamentally extreme 1555 00:54:48,422 --> 00:54:49,644 and imbalanced, 1556 00:54:49,644 --> 00:54:50,927 then I invite you to study 1557 00:54:50,927 --> 00:54:53,221 the emotionally symmetric Jesus. 1558 00:54:53,221 --> 00:54:54,459 And I submit to you 1559 00:54:54,459 --> 00:54:56,480 that the fundamental reason 1560 00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:57,648 why He was able to keep 1561 00:54:57,648 --> 00:54:59,515 such emotional equilibrium, 1562 00:54:59,515 --> 00:55:01,753 was because He was in perfect obedience 1563 00:55:01,753 --> 00:55:06,257 to the Word as the man of faith." 1564 00:55:06,257 --> 00:55:09,405 What gave ballast to Jesus' emotional life 1565 00:55:09,405 --> 00:55:11,997 was an unwavering commitment 1566 00:55:11,997 --> 00:55:14,159 to the Word of His Father. 1567 00:55:14,159 --> 00:55:16,809 And that's going to be the case with us, brothers. 1568 00:55:16,809 --> 00:55:21,291 We need to be faithful to obey the Word of God. 1569 00:55:21,291 --> 00:55:22,951 And in the path of that obedience, 1570 00:55:22,951 --> 00:55:24,833 our emotions will follow along 1571 00:55:24,833 --> 00:55:26,779 and be righteous emotions. 1572 00:55:26,779 --> 00:55:28,677 But not only that, 1573 00:55:28,677 --> 00:55:31,703 but also prayer. 1574 00:55:31,703 --> 00:55:34,599 Jesus was committed to the habit of prayer. 1575 00:55:34,599 --> 00:55:35,842 We read in Luke 5:16, 1576 00:55:35,842 --> 00:55:37,812 "But Jesus Himself would often slip away 1577 00:55:37,812 --> 00:55:39,957 to the wilderness and pray." 1578 00:55:39,957 --> 00:55:41,806 And at times that would have been 1579 00:55:41,806 --> 00:55:44,395 emotionally tempting for Jesus, 1580 00:55:44,395 --> 00:55:46,015 we find Him praying. 1581 00:55:46,015 --> 00:55:48,069 He prayed at His baptism 1582 00:55:48,069 --> 00:55:50,024 when the Spirit came upon Him. 1583 00:55:50,024 --> 00:55:52,118 When He needed to choose 12 disciples, 1584 00:55:52,118 --> 00:55:53,940 He prayed all night. 1585 00:55:53,940 --> 00:55:56,556 After that exhausting evening of ministry 1586 00:55:56,556 --> 00:55:57,729 with the crowd, 1587 00:55:57,729 --> 00:55:59,452 and knowing they would pressure Him 1588 00:55:59,452 --> 00:56:00,714 to continue on, 1589 00:56:00,714 --> 00:56:02,311 He was alone with His Father 1590 00:56:02,311 --> 00:56:05,585 to have restored the Father's agenda. 1591 00:56:05,585 --> 00:56:08,471 So He's not bullied by the agendas of man. 1592 00:56:08,471 --> 00:56:10,750 When He hears about the death 1593 00:56:10,750 --> 00:56:12,656 of John the Baptist, 1594 00:56:12,656 --> 00:56:14,455 what's He going to think? 1595 00:56:14,455 --> 00:56:15,895 I'm next. 1596 00:56:15,895 --> 00:56:16,932 They're out for Me. 1597 00:56:16,932 --> 00:56:18,008 He was the forerunner. 1598 00:56:18,008 --> 00:56:19,459 I'm the real target. 1599 00:56:19,459 --> 00:56:21,253 And so, we read that He goes off 1600 00:56:21,253 --> 00:56:24,826 to Himself to pray. 1601 00:56:24,826 --> 00:56:27,450 When He's healing a man in the synagogue, 1602 00:56:27,450 --> 00:56:29,178 and provoking the Pharisees to plot 1603 00:56:29,178 --> 00:56:30,637 how to destroy Him, 1604 00:56:30,637 --> 00:56:31,671 He prays. 1605 00:56:31,671 --> 00:56:33,689 When they want to make Him an earthly king 1606 00:56:33,689 --> 00:56:35,654 because He feeds multiplied thousands, 1607 00:56:35,654 --> 00:56:37,609 He withdraws to Himself. 1608 00:56:37,609 --> 00:56:39,313 There's an emotional temptation. 1609 00:56:39,313 --> 00:56:42,756 And Jesus withdraws to be alone 1610 00:56:42,756 --> 00:56:45,075 with His Father and pray. 1611 00:56:45,075 --> 00:56:47,533 And it will be the same with us. 1612 00:56:47,533 --> 00:56:49,747 If we are to have emotional maturity, 1613 00:56:49,747 --> 00:56:50,938 emotional equilibrium, 1614 00:56:50,938 --> 00:56:52,599 not only do we need to be obedient 1615 00:56:52,599 --> 00:56:53,884 to the Word, 1616 00:56:53,884 --> 00:56:56,715 we need to draw near to God our Father 1617 00:56:56,715 --> 00:56:59,153 in prayer. 1618 00:56:59,153 --> 00:57:01,328 Casting our care upon Him. 1619 00:57:01,328 --> 00:57:04,151 Repenting of our sinful emotions. 1620 00:57:04,151 --> 00:57:06,560 Calling on Him to draw near. 1621 00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:08,827 To calm or settle our emotions, 1622 00:57:08,827 --> 00:57:09,917 at one point - 1623 00:57:09,917 --> 00:57:10,753 at another time, 1624 00:57:10,753 --> 00:57:12,674 to awaken and inflame our emotions. 1625 00:57:12,674 --> 00:57:14,288 Lord, this ought to make me angry 1626 00:57:14,288 --> 00:57:15,679 and I'm not angry. 1627 00:57:15,679 --> 00:57:18,919 Lord, help me to feel as You feel. 1628 00:57:18,919 --> 00:57:21,122 Or Lord, I'm worried, I'm fearful, 1629 00:57:21,122 --> 00:57:24,004 please calm my heart. 1630 00:57:24,004 --> 00:57:25,707 You see, there's no silver bullet. 1631 00:57:25,707 --> 00:57:27,397 There's no easy formula 1632 00:57:27,397 --> 00:57:29,612 to instant sanctification. 1633 00:57:29,612 --> 00:57:32,346 And that applies to our emotional lives. 1634 00:57:32,346 --> 00:57:33,981 The usual means of grace: 1635 00:57:33,981 --> 00:57:35,907 soaking our minds in God's Word, 1636 00:57:35,907 --> 00:57:38,765 spending much time in His presence in prayer, 1637 00:57:38,765 --> 00:57:40,490 will help us to grow 1638 00:57:40,490 --> 00:57:43,131 in our emotional likeness to Jesus. 1639 00:57:43,131 --> 00:57:46,284 And then let me add another means of grace. 1640 00:57:46,284 --> 00:57:48,696 Fellowship with other brothers. 1641 00:57:48,696 --> 00:57:50,360 He who walks with wise men 1642 00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:51,927 will be wise. 1643 00:57:51,927 --> 00:57:54,647 The companion of fools will suffer harm. 1644 00:57:54,647 --> 00:57:55,362 Right? 1645 00:57:55,362 --> 00:57:56,753 And there are some brothers 1646 00:57:56,753 --> 00:57:59,722 who better represent the emotions of Jesus 1647 00:57:59,722 --> 00:58:01,456 than we do. 1648 00:58:01,456 --> 00:58:02,891 And we will be rewarded for 1649 00:58:02,891 --> 00:58:04,993 fellowshipping with them, 1650 00:58:04,993 --> 00:58:05,943 observing them, 1651 00:58:05,943 --> 00:58:07,182 and learning from them. 1652 00:58:07,182 --> 00:58:08,802 And imitating them 1653 00:58:08,802 --> 00:58:12,773 as they imitate our Lord Christ. 1654 00:58:12,773 --> 00:58:15,917 Let's pray. 1655 00:58:15,917 --> 00:58:17,659 Lord Jesus, we thank You 1656 00:58:17,659 --> 00:58:19,802 for the beauty of Your Person. 1657 00:58:19,802 --> 00:58:23,608 And as we have surveyed very briefly 1658 00:58:23,608 --> 00:58:24,791 Your emotional life, 1659 00:58:24,791 --> 00:58:26,898 we thank You for the beautiful symmetry 1660 00:58:26,898 --> 00:58:30,522 and equilibrium of Your emotional life. 1661 00:58:30,522 --> 00:58:31,901 Lord, You know us. 1662 00:58:31,901 --> 00:58:33,786 You know our imbalances. 1663 00:58:33,786 --> 00:58:35,635 Thank You that Your blood cleanses us 1664 00:58:35,635 --> 00:58:38,453 from all of our emotional sins and sinning. 1665 00:58:38,453 --> 00:58:40,762 But do work in us 1666 00:58:40,762 --> 00:58:42,498 to conform us more fully 1667 00:58:42,498 --> 00:58:44,086 to Your emotions, 1668 00:58:44,086 --> 00:58:45,191 that we would not only 1669 00:58:45,191 --> 00:58:46,104 do as You do, 1670 00:58:46,104 --> 00:58:47,296 and think as You think, 1671 00:58:47,296 --> 00:58:49,371 but we would feel as You feel, 1672 00:58:49,371 --> 00:58:50,953 Lord Jesus. 1673 00:58:50,953 --> 00:58:52,355 We ask in Your name, 1674 00:58:52,355 --> 00:58:54,331 Amen.